My Ghost Teddy Bear

English: Picture of a teddy bear with head tur...

English: Picture of a teddy bear with head turned slightly to the left. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Dear Parents,

This Gary Oldmen your son talking about my teddy bear named Alex. I didn’t think that my teddy bear would have been turned into a ghost. Even if you still don’t believe me, this stuffed toy did turn into a ghost and was walking all around our home. A few days ago I have lost sight of him, but I couldn’t keep track of him. When I started to go back to school Alex came out of my backpack and started bothering every classmate in my class. All my classmates got scared, and you both knew that he exist now. This is totally confusing to believe it. He began kissing little girls, and drawing all around the chalk board. My teacher told me to put him back in my backpack, and I did. When the school ended Alex started moving and punching inside of my backpack, but I had it shut with the zipper closed. All the kids on the bus keep looking at me weird and scared. I finally arrived at home. I came at my home for you both to open the door, and you opened it, as I came inside. I went to my room, and opened the backpack. Alex came out and started going berserk all around the house scaring and bothering us all around our home. The both of you call the paranormal investigators, and they came in half an hour. It was a long day and night for them to figure out how to get rid of Alex, but finally they did. They left at midnight once they’ve captured my ghost teddy bear Alex. Wheh!That was close! I am so relieved. Well, thanks again with this problem. I have a story to tell to Barbara Walters in her show about Alex the ghost teddy bear. I have to appear in her next show in several days. This was a wild goose chase.

Sincerely yours,

Gary Oldmen

Stop Talking About Negative Events

America's Funniest Home Videos

America’s Funniest Home Videos (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

When it is time to spend time with your friends and family don’t talk about your bad recent, or past problems. They have had enough of your pessimism. You take it to the next level when you repeat things bad that have happened to you. If you do this it’s bad news for you. Everyone knows how some people act in public, but this doesn’t mean you can’t stop it from affecting you. Your family and friends want you to be happy, and not focus on some people who are clients or workers acting negative on you. Instead, talk about what happened in your life, which there are funny moments in our lives we can tell to friends and family. Also, you may see some people doing funny things by mistake, and some of the people laugh at it. They simply think it’s funny that’s all.  We all have some history that is really funny, and sometimes our funny moments get caught on camera in shows like America’s Funniest Videos. We don’t all get to appear on TV of our funny embarrassing moments, but at least it’s something to talk about. There is much entertainment to talk about. You can also focus on the positives of your life. Reflect on your good past, and you will be at peace. Listen to music of any kind, even if it’s offensive it doesn’t matter. I watch too many mafia movies that they use cussing words all the time, and I enjoy them. You can also look at decent movies as well, or the only movies you like are decent. Any kinds of things to share and talking to your friends about positive is worth fulfilling. Remember when you talk like you’re not well in your mind, you lose your chance of acting nice to people the next day. Every words that comes out of your mouth will be received negative or positive, and if you offend someone, then you’re asking for it. Remind yourself to take control of yourself when some people are being offensive towards you. Don’t lose your cool. Whatever happens bad in your days, just forget about it. Also, erase it from your memory quick. It only reflects on you, and your family if you drag them with your negative words of negative events to them, Let your mind be at ease. Watch TV whether it’s bad or good entertainment, as long as your mind is off negative events. The next days will be better. Our days sometimes have bad and good times all mixed in one day. This is what we call mixed-emotional days. The world isn’t against you, if that’s what you think. Nobody is after you, like you see in the movies. Talk about the good things that you saw, and leave the worse stuff behind. Once you do it you’ll feel good about yourself.

Dogs

English: Galveston Island, TX, September 17, 2...

English: Galveston Island, TX, September 17, 2088 — Dogs displaced by Hurricane Ike are sheltered at the local center set up by the Humane Society. Jocelyn Augustino/FEMA (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A dog is a man’s best friend. We always hear that saying all the time. I think they feel our emotions. They even love us and protect us. The would do anything to walk with us and play with us. Dogs are wonderful animals. They represent kindness. But, dogs are special in the category because they know how we feel. All they want is for us to be happy and all they want is for themselves to be happy. Obviously some people don’t want to touch dogs, simply because they don’t want to. They protect our home and are great friends to get along with. They communicate in ways of trying to help us. They want to be hugged and loved. I have had a dog as a pet. I cared for him, fed him, and walked with him. He was my best friend. Pets are great friends to be around with them. They keep you company anytime possible. Most dogs are trained by cops for catching criminals. They are also trained to sniff out drugs from criminals. These dogs make our lives living more easy. There are huge dogs and small dogs. However, any animal you want as a pet is fine, because it loves you back. We also love them back as well.

Championships: It’s All About Luck

Sports and games

Sports and games (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Teams win and lose. WIN. OR. GO. HOME. The classic saying once you go into the playoffs of any sports league. When teams want to win championships they have to work hard, and have much luck going their way. Athletes practice everyday to improve. Teams develop better and they improve. Fans like us can’t wait to see sports games, which we are spoiled when teams win, and there is nothing wrong with that. Coaches need to look at their playbooks, and at other teams on much videotapes to see how they play defense and offense. The teams can’t take their opponents lightly and if they do they have another thing coming. Athletes need to prepare for every game to be ready for the task at hand. I think logic also play in these games for teams. They need everything to bounce in their favor. Another thing is they need to be healthy and ready for any obstacles coming their way. It is all on them if they don’t get the job done to win championships. When there is an off-season for them they need to be skilled and not lose their talents. Every athlete knows this and they have to play it smart. Luck is really hard to come by. It just doesn’t come when you need it, but when it is earned. Luck is a whole different animal and you just have to trust it. Teams get it done when they have years of experience winning. Sports is very emotional and athletes can’t lose their steps once they’re on the playing field.

People Making Stupid Decisions For You (Ignore Them)

No matter how many mistakes you've made in the...

No matter how many mistakes you’ve made in the past, or what sort of difficulties you struggle with now, you are destined to live in victory. -Joel Osteen (Photo credit: deeplifequotes)

Most of us have had our decisions made by many people, and this is why they are bullies. Don’t listen to them and ignore them. In sooner time they’ll think back and regret it for the rest of their lives. We don’t need to name names, but we for sure we know who they are. They are on all fronts of our lives, and they won’t leave us alone. You are not alone in this one, because I have had them or still have them. I don’t listen to them. I just do the opposite to what they give me. The strong will between us, and the bullies are that we are original, and can’t ever be replaced. Ignore all the negative comments, plans, and actions of theirs. I don’t care what philosophy they have. I still think that is junk making things worse for everyone. They only live one-dimensional, and they could be anybody. You have a right to feel angry at them, but this doesn’t mean they’ll change. In my case some never change and they stay the same. Fight back and make them feel inferior; however, superior they may be. It clearly doesn’t matter who they are. Again you need to fight back. You feel good when the odds are against you and in that way we always win. My simple thinking of this they’ll turn out the losers at the end when they get old and retire. Actually, we are going to be the winners in all of this. Don’t care for the negative results, because God always wins no matter how the outcome will be. We believe in ourselves to decide what we want and what is right. I no longer have any bullies, but if I do I’ll fight back right at them with smarts. When things aren’t going your way think that you do have the upper-hand today, tomorrow, and always. Your lives aren’t jokes, and these are jokers who are ruining our lives. Somehow, someday we’ll be the superior ones, and they will feel like jerks, which they already are. We aren’t jerks on this one, and we are warriors. I am a warrior. Keep repeating that every time, until they know not to mess with you anymore. It doesn’t matter how old they are. By believing in yourself you can stand up to these bullies no matter how younger, older, and what race they are.

Be Your Own Problem Solver

How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?

How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria? (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I think that it is better to solve your own problems. If you solve many strangers’ problems they won’t help you at all. Some do; however, but it’s rare. Think about your life and solve the problems that you have in front of you. If you don’t drive and want to learn, then do it without any fuss. You are going to have problems along the way, even if you don’t want them. Choose to be kind and noble. Stand up for yourself, and don’t let anyone bully you. You are going to have bullies in your early years. It’s up to you to solve this problem on your own or with someone’s help. We are on a journey adventure of what is called life. It has a messy side along with a decent side. Some people will trick you to do the things you don’t want to do. They will force you to do bad things and it will be your fault, if you don’t tell on them. Your parents are the most trusting, and loving people. They are your friends. They are the two most trusted, and caring people in your life. Growing is difficult, but the growing pains you’ll learn to adjust. There will be times when someone’s problems will be your fault for no reason. This is the time you need to tell the truth to your teacher or coach. When people do bad stuff they aren’t very good liars, but some are. This is rare. However, don’t hide your truths, and don’t let this happen to you. Figure out a way to solve your problems or ask someone to help you. When you have a serious problem solve it, and it won’t take one day to solve it takes a while. Most people have problems like building a car model as a hobby, learning English, and deciding to get a job. Jobs are real hard to do, but you have your brain to work with on this. Being a problem solver will help your life. We all hate problems, but they go away once they are solved.

Change: Take it Easy

Disney's Friends for Change

Disney’s Friends for Change (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Many people want to change to be good people. One for starters I wanted to change my habits, and moods. I was very rough with people in the past, and a few years later had a change of heart. Maybe, this could be you, if you are willing to take the effort. I was and am all of the time a decent person, but before I have made stupid choices I have regretted. When someone thinks of change they think of it as a scary word. You don’t need to fear this word, just be yourself. The past is a map of deciding how to treat people as you would like to be treated. I was lost in my childhood about being good or bad, and wanted to be good, instead I chose the mean role. In this case I was lost, and wished I have decided to be good, noble, and a nice person. I have lost many friends this way, and hope that most of you wouldn’t do the same. But, if you try to think of what good is, then you can change of this is who you are. It is just genetic in our genes. You need to hear their stories, and be more understanding of them. I know that some people think that we might be the same mean persons all over again of acting bad. Like most of you we want to do good deeds, and feel this way all the time. When you are rough on people you lose friends like some of us. These many years were learning experiences, it was rough, and I gutted it out. The end results are I have changed, chose the good side, and have friends now. You need to understand why people are lost, because if you don’t, then you’ll miss the opportunity of seeing some changing towards goodness. I know it is hard picturing in later years the mean person changed as a nice person, but at least try. You did it for me, but try for others as well. The wrong thing you would do is stay mad at those who are lost forever, because maybe some will change like I did. Hear their stories, and understand why they did those things before! Give it a try, and consult with them!

Fear of Harmless Things

Scared child

Scared child (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

It is in our small habits that we fear things that aren’t a danger for us. For example some fear of clowns, famous celebrities, and etc. Some of the time we don’t overcome it by not forgetting it it stays with us in our lifetime. By not paying attention to it, and focused on the realities of life, then our lives are more fun and interesting. I don’t know why some people fear these things that aren’t of any harm, and don’t have any answer for it. Some people fear small birds that look strange, and they are harmless. We carry different emotions and reactions towards stuff. This isn’t healthy, but it is what it is. Most people aren’t afraid of anything, and have no problems enjoying their lives. We need to respect people that are fearful of harmless stuff that appoint of no danger to them. Maybe, we’ll hear their sides of the story of answering that simple question why. I think it comes in childhood of what you don’t know how they got it. Most parents don’t really think their sons, and daughters are fearful of things that are safe. It’s just silly behavior, and some of us have it. But, they forget about their fears and enjoy their lives. I have heard that some women are afraid of big spiders, and any kind of that sort. Perhaps, they do have reasons for it. I just think that it is their genes that cause this mechanism in their minds.

Wiping Away your Sorrows

Getup Get God

Getup Get God (Photo credit: prettywar-stl)

We all have had negative events happened to us, and sometimes we go through some painful days in the present times. In order to forget about this recent painful day, clear your head, and go on with your life. Perhaps, there may never be another time where you’ll feel happy once you have conquered that sadness, however your day turns out. Remember things happen when you jump to conclusions, and its all on you. I know some people do the wrong things, but don’t let it affect you. If you want people to realize that you have changed to a nice person, instead of a jerk, then you have to feel positive till this day. It’s understandable that this isn’t your day, but at least feel as if this half day is positive. Remember most people will realize the real person underneath you. In that person that everyone loves, and cares. We all go through an emotional roller coaster, and maybe they are having the same days like you. Feel free to be normal, and act normal. One thing I need to remind you is that God works all miracles, and he doesn’t care how old you are. what matters the most is what matters today. Leave the past stuck in your past times, and leave it behind to make new positive ones in the present. I know what some of you are going through, so just hang in there, until all is resolved. But, first clear all your sorrows away right now. Once advice don’t do the mean stuff to anyone ever again. OK?!