Stop Talking About Negative Events

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When it is time to spend time with your friends and family don’t talk about your bad recent, or past problems. They have had enough of your pessimism. You take it to the next level when you repeat things bad that have happened to you. If you do this it’s bad news for you. Everyone knows how some people act in public, but this doesn’t mean you can’t stop it from affecting you. Your family and friends want you to be happy, and not focus on some people who are clients or workers acting negative on you. Instead, talk about what happened in your life, which there are funny moments in our lives we can tell to friends and family. Also, you may see some people doing funny things by mistake, and some of the people laugh at it. They simply think it’s funny that’s all.  We all have some history that is really funny, and sometimes our funny moments get caught on camera in shows like America’s Funniest Videos. We don’t all get to appear on TV of our funny embarrassing moments, but at least it’s something to talk about. There is much entertainment to talk about. You can also focus on the positives of your life. Reflect on your good past, and you will be at peace. Listen to music of any kind, even if it’s offensive it doesn’t matter. I watch too many mafia movies that they use cussing words all the time, and I enjoy them. You can also look at decent movies as well, or the only movies you like are decent. Any kinds of things to share and talking to your friends about positive is worth fulfilling. Remember when you talk like you’re not well in your mind, you lose your chance of acting nice to people the next day. Every words that comes out of your mouth will be received negative or positive, and if you offend someone, then you’re asking for it. Remind yourself to take control of yourself when some people are being offensive towards you. Don’t lose your cool. Whatever happens bad in your days, just forget about it. Also, erase it from your memory quick. It only reflects on you, and your family if you drag them with your negative words of negative events to them, Let your mind be at ease. Watch TV whether it’s bad or good entertainment, as long as your mind is off negative events. The next days will be better. Our days sometimes have bad and good times all mixed in one day. This is what we call mixed-emotional days. The world isn’t against you, if that’s what you think. Nobody is after you, like you see in the movies. Talk about the good things that you saw, and leave the worse stuff behind. Once you do it you’ll feel good about yourself.

Through The Never-ending Misery Tour

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Samalia Hampton is a 28 year old woman that goes through her miseries of failed relationships. She is living in buffalo, New York. She had lost all of her friends by feeling bad and tries to get them back. Her friends told her they would come back in one condition, if she gets over it by being happy and positive.

She doesn’t understand that situations like these aren’t a big deal. I certainly hope she understands. Well, she is working on a case defending a criminal who has killed a little girl. Through seven months of working the case she lost by the jury pleading guilty to her client. She left heartbroken that she started to leave right away from  the courtroom, and drove to her apartment.

She watched TV to feel better, but it didn’t work. She fell asleep in her bedroom. Suddenly she’s been transported to a tour somewhat of a ride like in theme parks. She woke up and is strapped onto a seat on a vehicle bringing her to the never-ending Misery Tour. Once she goes in she sees all her break-ups of relationships she had gone through. Some of them she has cheated on several men.

She can’t stand the agony, and screams in pain crying.

“Stop! I don’t want to see my past relationships!” she cried

“You need to in order to feel better!” commanded the Misery Master

“I am not going to change, if that’s what you want!” she complained

“Then you will be here forever!” said Misery Master

She sees to her left that she had someone beat up her nerd boyfriend. Once she saw it she feels guilty. But, seeing to her right she sees another Break-up, where she’s French kissing a strong built man, while her boyfriend sees her with hurt. Samalia can’t stand it. Another one involves her ex-boyfriend committing suicide, because she broke up with him. He went to the top of the building and jumped 100 feet down to his last dying breath.

“Enough! I promise I will change! Please, just get me out of here!” she cried in agony

“Alright! But, it has to be convincing!” said Misery Master

“Okay! I feel better!” she said

Once she felt better all the Never-ending Misery Tour has ended. It has been called this way, because if some people stay with misery they’ll be in there forever. This is the reason is called The Never-ending Misery Tour.

She is been transported back to her apartment and she woke up. It was morning and she called all her friends one by one on the phone. She told them that she will be happy and positive for now on. She has confidence that she’ll get a boyfriend and then marry him someday. Her friends are convinced that she is telling the truth. She has never failed them.

A few years later she married a rich lawyer who is like her and lived happily ever after with her own new family. She have never lost her friends and they’re trustworthy of her.

Be Supportive To Your Friends

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I think some people let loose the most important friends that they don’t realize who they are. This happens all the time to all of us. When we think some people are bad and are changed to good. We miscalculate about it and they won’t ever to come to you again. The kindness of most people bring is understanding of hearing your friends’ side of their stories. We can’t just judge by what we actually see. If we do then we won’t ever see the real story, instead they see a made up one they thought happened. However, the history comes up we will always win. Remember that God always wins no matter how big the problem is and if it is too late for some of us. There are other friends who trust you and want to come back to you. Forget about the friends who aren’t trustworthy and let them go. I think if you give in to doubtful people then there’s no use hoping. I have the most experience about these problems. Stand tall and be something of yourself. Many innocent people have been wrongly accused and some lost most friends just because of small problems. Let me tell you that some will end up in their sorry selves. So, don’t think that they have won already. You can still make it happen. It is never too late. Your family and true friends are the most trustworthy people in the world. Cheer up if you are with only your parents, because it’s never too late to gain friends. Believe in yourself. Support the true friends who are trustworthy in your life. Don’t let them go away before it is all too late and you can’t ever see them again. It comes back to hear their stories of what changed them to good people. Hear them out. Remember some stories you think are bad just because of the picture isn’t exactly the real story. You only see the picture from your perspective, not the real life history of some of theirs.

In Order to Live Life be Happy

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Some people love to live in misery and they drag some of us there by tormenting us. Don’t be those kinds of people. Be kind to others, and live positive. I mean your whole life is ahead of you, and you can do anything you want. Enrich your life by making friends to strangers who are friendly, and don’t invite anyone who is bad. My advice is to always be happy, and nothing negative on anything just you. It makes you look bad tormenting yourself. We all have had problems, and overcome them. It’s time to fight back against your negativity. In order to do that you must feel good about yourself, and think that you can’t control things in other places, and only in the place where you are. Accept the people who think different than you, and think for yourself. Remember no one will change you. You yourself can only make the positive change. Age doesn’t matter, just as long as you are happy. Find something entertaining to watch, do or read. I bet there are shows you would want to watch on TV or play basketball with friends at a school near you. If you are over 30 and love to watch The Disney Channel don’t be ashamed by it. I mean there are some people who watch it also over the age of 30. Find a concept that will make you happy, and be a role model to your children. Someday you are going to tell the same things to your children as well. Be that person, and be the happy person. Live your life to the fullest. You are not getting any younger, but older. God sent you to enjoy life with  others around you.