Negativity Can Affect Your Life (If You Let It)

Half of the people here in this world live their lives depressed. They let negativity take control of their lives. They have trouble enjoying the present for what positives it offers. The problem here is that they are depressed on thinking about their lost past personal opportunities. Those persons wish that time travel exists in real life, but will never happen. The negative pasts can be erased by not thinking about it. Some people think that it’s too late to change their lives. They can bounce back in big ways possible in the present. The only time we have fun is only in the present. To me this sounds logical. I think of today always. Think of what you can do right now for your life to bounce back, instead of the impossibility of time travel, which never happens. Read a self help book and self help videos. What I recommend is to buy the book This is The Day by Tim Tebow. Start reading Joel Osteen’s books as well and follow my advice to think optimistic and happy. Be a brand new positive you. You are the most important person in this world. Live for today and never think like some other negative people of life ever again. Be happy. God is always with you every step of the way.

Be Happy and Optimistic

I don’t think that being negative and feeling sorry for yourself will help you. It will however destroy your life and the way you see in life. The most important thing is to be happy. The smartest person is the happy and optimistic one. Never dwell on your negative pasts. Instead enjoy the fun present experiences. Do something optimistic that will eventually make you happy. Remember you are the most important person in this world. Value yourself in good positive things. Be active and useful. Stay happy. Being happy is healthy. The first step is to realize how you feel right now and then do something about it. Use your mind and be smart to be happy.

My Advice Quotes #174

“A very important advice is to never hate any teams all your entire life as a sports fan. Hating is a number 1 venom to everyone if they do want to hate teams. Sports is only to watch for fun and not hating any teams. Also, stop hating teams in your mind when no one else knows about it. Hating any team is like hating yourself. It is better to like or, dislike some teams, so you can respect fans going for them. Don’t make fun of fans and their teams. Be a fair sports fan always and not a mean one forever.”

-Raul Conde (Writer)

The Present is Always Your Friend

There is nothing better than the positive present of your life. I think nobody needs to think of how their futures are going to look like, because focusing on the future takes away most of your energy to perform positive in the present. It is better not to think of the past and the future. The present is the one you should be focused on. Not everyone’s time at the moment will be perfect. Most people have obstacles in their way. It is better to walk away from those negative events. To perform at today in that time you need to feel positive and realize that you are important. Don’t worry if it doesn’t come at that instance, because it will come a few minutes from now. Remember the present is always your friend and it is trying to help you. You have God inside you, as I do too. Live in the present and stop making up your future in your mind, which you know it might or might not happen the way you thought of. Most people think about their future and they make it up, because they think they already know what’s going to happen. We all don’t really know. We just keep guessing. It will only make you negative and you will make mistakes in the moment, because of it. Think and feel the present. Use it happy and positive. The present moment is the best time you will have in your lifetime. Trust me. You will begin to be happier about yourself.

Listen To Your Parents

You always have to trust your parents. They are the only ones who can help and so do your family. They are there for you. They care about you. Don’t listen to strangers to tell you what to do. If you have any problems go straight to your parents to tell them the truth, so they can help you. Your parents can solve all your problems. Your parents love you. Never back out on them. Never lie to your mom and dad. Consult to them about your recent problems.

Be Friends With Nice People Instead of Being Enemies

No one likes a fight and a war. No one wants to start a fight over something silly, or that is already settled. Some people take their personal lives way too serious. I think it is time to go to a Psychiatrist for therapies. You will start to feel better. Some have anger management problems and they want to be that same stubborn self. I think we need to do away from anger, because it creates much violence and crimes all over the world. Read a psychology book, or start reading some Psychology Today magazines. I bet that you will be feeling fine. Think for 10 minutes of what you are doing, or talk to someone before it gets way out of hand on you. The smartest choice is friendliness. Don’t confront whiners. Don’t confront people who hate innocent things. Just ignore them. Be yourself and start to act normal. Occupy yourself by reading books and listening to music. Take time off to let out your steam from your mind. Be happy and nice.