You always have to trust your parents. They are the only ones who can help and so do your family. They are there for you. They care about you. Don’t listen to strangers to tell you what to do. If you have any problems go straight to your parents to tell them the truth, so they can help you. Your parents can solve all your problems. Your parents love you. Never back out on them. Never lie to your mom and dad. Consult to them about your recent problems.
No one likes a fight and a war. No one wants to start a fight over something silly, or that is already settled. Some people take their personal lives way too serious. I think it is time to go to a Psychiatrist for therapies. You will start to feel better. Some have anger management problems and they want to be that same stubborn self. I think we need to do away from anger, because it creates much violence and crimes all over the world. Read a psychology book, or start reading some Psychology Today magazines. I bet that you will be feeling fine. Think for 10 minutes of what you are doing, or talk to someone before it gets way out of hand on you. The smartest choice is friendliness. Don’t confront whiners. Don’t confront people who hate innocent things. Just ignore them. Be yourself and start to act normal. Occupy yourself by reading books and listening to music. Take time off to let out your steam from your mind. Be happy and nice.
I think that the fiction character, Celie from the novel, The Color Purple is a great role model for the good people that want to change for good. She stands for freedom, respect, and liberty.
No one likes a hater who hates nice people. I think those people are lost for sure. It is very easy and simple to be a nice person to nice persons. Most people hate bullies. Take the time to think how wrong you mistreated friendly people. Treat them nice for a change. Spread peace and love around the world, except hate. Hating kind persons can make you very depressed. Do something nice for someone. Accept caring in your life. If you have hate in you seek professional self-help. Those who are ignorant will lose in the real world. Do the world a favor and be nice to nice people. It’s not hard, but real easy to do, and think about.
We should stop feeling negative all the time. Stop thinking of negative past events that trouble your mind and you seem not to let out of your system. There are people who still have the bad past events in their minds. Some have it from way back in the 80’s or 90’s, and they are over now. But, they still have it memorized. We need to get over the hump of this past monster that drags most of our lives. Think of positive events, even if they are old. The smart thing to do is think of the good events that have happened recently, because all the rest is past tense. Once you get the dark pasts out or your system. You will once again enjoy life. You can even pretend that you’re going to change your past, but don’t get too attached to it. Don’t really think that you can go back to the past. There are a lot of things that you will enjoy in the present. My advice to you is don’t start as a mean person, and be nice to people. Enjoy what life has to offer. The gift of life is: positivity!
Alright, now I know what being lost is, and it wasn’t easy to overcome it. It took me years of realizing what I needed to change in order to make people likes me for who I am. One thing I have learned is not to hate the wrong people, and not get angry with anybody. The second is that never go against my friends, and families who care about me. The third one is that never turn away from the people that love me. The last one is never disrespect anything or anyone, and don’t make fun of people again. These were the things I had to figure out in order to realize that I was never a jerk. I was just lost. Now I know what good is, and means. In the past several years I have had to change my habits, and attitudes towards being friendly to people. The negativity I have had to take out, and the arguing with people for no reason too. A person who is lost is someone who goes against the people they care about him/her the most. It could last for like 15 or 17 years, maybe less for anyone who is lost. These years have been completely different, even though I have gotten angry with my favorite teams losing games I didn’t let it out in public. The past current years I have gotten angry for some days, but during those times I have had to change my feelings of being positive, accepting realities, and realize that there are people who want to help me. It wasn’t real easy for me, because I have had to fight my own demons, but have come now as the friendliest person you can hang around with. The only thing I am trying to do is now not complain about the losing games, and not worry about things like magazines or any stuff not coming in the mail for me. Through this time my attitude is now of a friendly, and caring person who cares about families, friends, and good people.
Most people feel good about themselves. Drink lots of water. Substitute the sodas, alcohol, and coffee drinks for water. It is easy to get accustom to water. Once you’re on a diet you’ll start to feel good about yourself, and you won’t feel embarrassed about your weight again. Love yourself of how you are, but not by being perfect. Think of good things. enjoy movies, shows, sports, reading books, and keep learning things. It isn’t difficult to love and respect yourself. Once you exercise you start to love doing it everyday. Getting a career, or going to study in school will make your life happier. Talk about life with friends and family. Listen to music, and look at all the things around you. Start accepting yourself of how you are and is. It doesn’t matter how you are and how you look. You are smart, and your friends will tell you the same thing I did. Erase that memory of people laughing at you in public. It isn’t healthy. Keep the positive activities. Don’t eat and drink stuff that do harm to your body. You body feels positive or negative of what you put in it. The body needs to be happy, because you want to be happy. Feel good about all the things you have in life, then you’ll begin to appreciate the world, and yourself as well.