No one likes a fight and a war. No one wants to start a fight over something silly, or that is already settled. Some people take their personal lives way too serious. I think it is time to go to a Psychiatrist for therapies. You will start to feel better. Some have anger management problems and they want to be that same stubborn self. I think we need to do away from anger, because it creates much violence and crimes all over the world. Read a psychology book, or start reading some Psychology Today magazines. I bet that you will be feeling fine. Think for 10 minutes of what you are doing, or talk to someone before it gets way out of hand on you. The smartest choice is friendliness. Don’t confront whiners. Don’t confront people who hate innocent things. Just ignore them. Be yourself and start to act normal. Occupy yourself by reading books and listening to music. Take time off to let out your steam from your mind. Be happy and nice.
If someone has helped you in any way of your life. You should thank them. You will feel once better when you do. If you don’t you will feel worthless and guilty that you didn’t. There are people who want to help nice people like you. I don’t think not thanking them for their efforts of saving your life will leave you all positive. Sure, it will leave you positive, but there will be some of that guilt wishing you would have done so. Mixed feelings are more the point you will feel. Give a moment of thanks to nice people who have given a chance on your life. Think about it. I know that you won’t be a loser by not doing it, but remember that blame will get ugly on you someday. Thank them. It’s the correct choice. Your life will be viewed positive, if you do!
“Pray to God for your family and friends for them to be okay.”
-Raul Conde (Writer)
Most of us should be happy that we have our families, and even our friends. But, family comes first. Family is the most important. They are there for you and they care about you. You should be happy that you have your family, even if you have a few friends. Don’t demoralize yourself about not having many friends, because I think you will get it later in your life. Life is suppose to be enjoyed. We are all to err in our lives, and we’re all human. Even I am human. I have learned to give back to families and friends. The one thing that I am proud of is that I took out the mean person in me. I started to bring the nice person of who I am in real life. I think this approach most of you should do. In fact I want most of you to forget about the dark pasts and forgive others who want to change for good. This is an excellent assignment for most of you. Be happy for what you got, because not all people have it. All I am asking is change for the positive life. People will come back to you friendly and want to be your friends. Your family will want you back in their lives. There is nothing to lose in the present, because the past is over. Listen to yourself and not the jerks who push you around. You’ll be surprised of how some other people were lost in their lives trying to be the nice person and defining suddenly what is good. We should throw out the bad and the mean side. We should be nice people. It is easy to do, and it isn’t so hard to do. I have done it, and you should too. Just forget about the past and stick to the present.
There is no reason to fill your mind with depressed and destructive thoughts. Do something that makes you happy. Read a book, even if it’s violent or horror, but don’t feel like there is a shadow looming over you. Most people are having the time of their lives and so should you. Be easy on your mind, and forget about lost opportunities. Don’t just watch violence. Watch comedy shows, easy documentaries, and read books on interesting subjects. Your mind needs to unravel your thoughts. It needs that compassion and nature. Your mind has to be easy on you. If you don’t take it easy, then you will end up frustrated. I think if you grab on to a subject like nature, and not always violence, then your mind will thank you. Do something that is beautiful, and pleasurable. Your mind needs wonderful thoughts and memories. You need to feel good about yourself.
Having a sense of freedom, and caring for true friends is great. Family and friends is love. Never act like a jerk on anyone, and that is including on nice people. Be a decent person. Act like an adult, and not a jerk who for example starts taunting innocent people just for fun. If you make fun of nice people and their things you will ask for it. Love God and not the Devil. Listen to your parents wisdom. They are there to guide you. You will see a big difference of people’s personality once they act it out. This will show you who to trust and not to. Life has its many wonderful rewards. I love my life. I love my city I live in. I love my family. Having fun and caring for people will make you a better person. Care and love for people who want to help. Help yourself. Help others. Care for love, and stop caring for hating innocent stuff.
If you are happy regardless of what else happens is all that counts. I think if good or bad things go against us we all need to be and feel happy. I know the world can be kind and cruel at the same time. It has happened to me, and most of us as well. Happiness brings you everything that you want in life. In the end of your life you reign supreme of those who did you wrong they pay the circumstances. No matter how your situation is good, bad, or worse. Try to find your happiness whenever you can find it. Feeling positive in what you do is the most important. Believe in something you can build on for prosperity. Peace is all what you want right now. In these troubled times you have to find peace through whatever goes in life. In some cases things have gone wrong and good for me in some occasions. I only remember the good ones. I erase the bad ones. Some of our lives could be tainted from our success of what we achieved, but it is not so bad. I think if you look at the positives, then you can be proud of your achievements. Everyone deserves something in life. Lonely people can’t fear in lonesome forever. Happiness is all that counts right now. You can be anybody you want to be.