Many people want to change to be good people. One for starters I wanted to change my habits, and moods. I was very rough with people in the past, and a few years later had a change of heart. Maybe, this could be you, if you are willing to take the effort. I was and am all of the time a decent person, but before I have made stupid choices I have regretted. When someone thinks of change they think of it as a scary word. You don’t need to fear this word, just be yourself. The past is a map of deciding how to treat people as you would like to be treated. I was lost in my childhood about being good or bad, and wanted to be good, instead I chose the mean role. In this case I was lost, and wished I have decided to be good, noble, and a nice person. I have lost many friends this way, and hope that most of you wouldn’t do the same. But, if you try to think of what good is, then you can change of this is who you are. It is just genetic in our genes. You need to hear their stories, and be more understanding of them. I know that some people think that we might be the same mean persons all over again of acting bad. Like most of you we want to do good deeds, and feel this way all the time. When you are rough on people you lose friends like some of us. These many years were learning experiences, it was rough, and I gutted it out. The end results are I have changed, chose the good side, and have friends now. You need to understand why people are lost, because if you don’t, then you’ll miss the opportunity of seeing some changing towards goodness. I know it is hard picturing in later years the mean person changed as a nice person, but at least try. You did it for me, but try for others as well. The wrong thing you would do is stay mad at those who are lost forever, because maybe some will change like I did. Hear their stories, and understand why they did those things before! Give it a try, and consult with them!