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Take Out Your Mood Swings

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Spears dancing with her friends in the music video. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

When you need to be happy and positive you need to act on it. Don’t do anything that’s hurtful. When I say this is because you may be watching a music video, and you act on it like being depressed of your negative past experiences. You feel the same way the song does, as if you’re never going to get a girlfriend. You can listen to any music you like, but don’t act upon it. Also, don’t make up events in your mind that aren’t really happening. You need to control on what is facing in front of you. Go out with your friends. Don’t remind yourself of your negative pasts, and make songs about it. Always make your brain healthy. When you feel negative your brain cells die off. In order for your brain cells to be healthy you need to feel positive and happy about yourself. Help your friends on anything important they need to do. Find the right crowds to be friends with. Don’t act so moody. By not acting moody is by not making up any feelings you don’t have towards anything. You need to take away your mood swings before you hurt anyone, and if you do it’ll be your major fault. Do the right thing by enjoying life with friends. Your mood swings shouldn’t control you. You should control your mood swings yourself, if required, find someone to help you.

Don’t Pay Attention To Jerks (Give Them The Silent Treatment)

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the joker (based on a Dave McKean work)

the joker (based on a Dave McKean work) (Photo credit: Sick Sad M!kE)

I am not a jerk. I am a nice person. But, I have come across some people that treated me like crap. I won’t name names. I think in order not to listen to them give them the silent treatment. They’ll soon live lonely lives deservedly so. Jerks are flamboyant when they bother you and they think they have won, which they didn’t in reality. Back in my early years in my twenties most people made a big deal about sports teams, and I gave in to them. I don’t anymore. I just watch the games without making a big deal about it. This is what you should do also. Let the jerks do what they want because it doesn’t affect you it affects them: however, they think it doesn’t. There are going to be some people that think you’re a jerk, but some of you aren’t. just ignore them, and they’ll change their minds about you quickly. It has  happened to me many times. Some people can be overcritical of some of us. This is the reason is that we want care, but some are doing it the wrong way. My advice to you if you did something offensive to someone you don’t like, and made this mistake; just forget it and live your life. This is what I mean about overcritical just because we do one thing wrong we’re the bad guys. This is jumping to conclusions. These people care about you, and not necessarily won’t ignore you in other days. Give it time for them to figure you out. We all have done things we thought was right. I think you should think twice and don’t do it again because it’ll cost you a  huge mistake. I even think in those Batman comic books the jerks are the jokers themselves. They should be in those comics as well as they are acting in real life. Talk to people that really care about you, and avoid people’s negative criticisms. They’ll change their minds once you treat them nice as they treat you. Avoid trickery from The Jokers. Let the jerks act like jerks forever, and one thing they are already in Hell in their minds. Most of us nice people are in Heaven; however, the results may be positive or negative. God always wins. I am happy and positive. Most of us are. Live your life.

Embrace Your Age And Past

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Failure to Launch

Failure to Launch (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Don’t ever be ashamed of your age. I know some of us haven’t had some things before, but it doesn’t mean you can’t have it now. For example you never had a girlfriend, never married, and your 47 years old. In fact it’s never too late of reaching that goal. Some people start late in their age of becoming famous celebrities, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Most people have gained things way before us, but we can have most positive things happen to us at any age. Be proud of your age, and forget being depressed about it. There are times for anything like having a college degree at any career. I think we feel ashamed of this, because we see most people have positive stuff happen to them way before us. This isn’t a reason to feel bad about it just because you haven’t for example had many friends at your 20’s. Think of it this way your age brings wisdom and courage. It brings great expectations and great hope for you. Once you see the movie Failure To Launch about a man who didn’t get out of his parents’ home and it’s in his forties or thirties. At the end of the movie he go out of his parents’ home by marrying a nice woman and he didn’t feel ashamed by it. To make you feel better I never had many friends in high school, but I have many friends now. Once you graduate in school it doesn’t matter what happened before and after school. Some loners give up and think it’s too late to do anything. I never give up and am proud of trying to accomplish my dream of becoming a  genre fiction novelist. I keep fighting. I am a warrior. You are going to hear many stories from average and famous people who overcame their problems. The simple logic is they’ve believed in themselves. This could be you. I believe in myself. Do you? The journey and answer is up to you. The next days will be brighter once you embrace your age, past and present.

Be More Out Going!

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The inside of The Quarter

The inside of The Quarter (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

There were and are some people that are afraid to go out, because of their former problems. But, by going out you can help your chances of gaining friends. I know you are worried about your life, but by doing this you’ll see that people will greet you nice. They do care. Anyways by thinking like a jerk and acting like one ruins all your chances of making friends. The only thing you need to do is be yourself. Start thinking happy and be the nice sharing person to your friends. We all want to be respected, but not by the way that some people think they own us. So don’t start thinking and acting like you own everything. This is the most awful way to start, because in any way shape the consequences are against you. This is a dangerous risk and will cost you dearly most of your life. By going out you feel the freedom you always wanted. Relax and walk around the parks, or go travel to Atlantic City in New Jersey. Even by walking around the neighborhood you can say or wave hello to your neighbors. Be happy and positive by going to places such as stores, supermarkets, or restaurants. Anywhere nice outside is great. You’ll be surprised of how people are impressed by the new you in a good way. Most people love a nice caring person. We will always create problems that some of us think we can’t solve. This is the reason you have your family to solve them and guide you. By going out you feel happy again and you wash all your depressions away from your mind. The negativity won’t be there anymore, but only the positivity will always be with you. I have 3 messages for all of you: Peace. Freedom. Love. 

Be Supportive To Your Friends

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Last Friends

Last Friends (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I think some people let loose the most important friends that they don’t realize who they are. This happens all the time to all of us. When we think some people are bad and are changed to good. We miscalculate about it and they won’t ever to come to you again. The kindness of most people bring is understanding of hearing your friends’ side of their stories. We can’t just judge by what we actually see. If we do then we won’t ever see the real story, instead they see a made up one they thought happened. However, the history comes up we will always win. Remember that God always wins no matter how big the problem is and if it is too late for some of us. There are other friends who trust you and want to come back to you. Forget about the friends who aren’t trustworthy and let them go. I think if you give in to doubtful people then there’s no use hoping. I have the most experience about these problems. Stand tall and be something of yourself. Many innocent people have been wrongly accused and some lost most friends just because of small problems. Let me tell you that some will end up in their sorry selves. So, don’t think that they have won already. You can still make it happen. It is never too late. Your family and true friends are the most trustworthy people in the world. Cheer up if you are with only your parents, because it’s never too late to gain friends. Believe in yourself. Support the true friends who are trustworthy in your life. Don’t let them go away before it is all too late and you can’t ever see them again. It comes back to hear their stories of what changed them to good people. Hear them out. Remember some stories you think are bad just because of the picture isn’t exactly the real story. You only see the picture from your perspective, not the real life history of some of theirs.

People Making Stupid Decisions For You (Ignore Them)

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No matter how many mistakes you've made in the...

No matter how many mistakes you’ve made in the past, or what sort of difficulties you struggle with now, you are destined to live in victory. -Joel Osteen (Photo credit: deeplifequotes)

Most of us have had our decisions made by many people, and this is why they are bullies. Don’t listen to them and ignore them. In sooner time they’ll think back and regret it for the rest of their lives. We don’t need to name names, but we for sure we know who they are. They are on all fronts of our lives, and they won’t leave us alone. You are not alone in this one, because I have had them or still have them. I don’t listen to them. I just do the opposite to what they give me. The strong will between us, and the bullies are that we are original, and can’t ever be replaced. Ignore all the negative comments, plans, and actions of theirs. I don’t care what philosophy they have. I still think that is junk making things worse for everyone. They only live one-dimensional, and they could be anybody. You have a right to feel angry at them, but this doesn’t mean they’ll change. In my case some never change and they stay the same. Fight back and make them feel inferior; however, superior they may be. It clearly doesn’t matter who they are. Again you need to fight back. You feel good when the odds are against you and in that way we always win. My simple thinking of this they’ll turn out the losers at the end when they get old and retire. Actually, we are going to be the winners in all of this. Don’t care for the negative results, because God always wins no matter how the outcome will be. We believe in ourselves to decide what we want and what is right. I no longer have any bullies, but if I do I’ll fight back right at them with smarts. When things aren’t going your way think that you do have the upper-hand today, tomorrow, and always. Your lives aren’t jokes, and these are jokers who are ruining our lives. Somehow, someday we’ll be the superior ones, and they will feel like jerks, which they already are. We aren’t jerks on this one, and we are warriors. I am a warrior. Keep repeating that every time, until they know not to mess with you anymore. It doesn’t matter how old they are. By believing in yourself you can stand up to these bullies no matter how younger, older, and what race they are.

Be Your Own Problem Solver

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How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?

How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria? (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I think that it is better to solve your own problems. If you solve many strangers’ problems they won’t help you at all. Some do; however, but it’s rare. Think about your life and solve the problems that you have in front of you. If you don’t drive and want to learn, then do it without any fuss. You are going to have problems along the way, even if you don’t want them. Choose to be kind and noble. Stand up for yourself, and don’t let anyone bully you. You are going to have bullies in your early years. It’s up to you to solve this problem on your own or with someone’s help. We are on a journey adventure of what is called life. It has a messy side along with a decent side. Some people will trick you to do the things you don’t want to do. They will force you to do bad things and it will be your fault, if you don’t tell on them. Your parents are the most trusting, and loving people. They are your friends. They are the two most trusted, and caring people in your life. Growing is difficult, but the growing pains you’ll learn to adjust. There will be times when someone’s problems will be your fault for no reason. This is the time you need to tell the truth to your teacher or coach. When people do bad stuff they aren’t very good liars, but some are. This is rare. However, don’t hide your truths, and don’t let this happen to you. Figure out a way to solve your problems or ask someone to help you. When you have a serious problem solve it, and it won’t take one day to solve it takes a while. Most people have problems like building a car model as a hobby, learning English, and deciding to get a job. Jobs are real hard to do, but you have your brain to work with on this. Being a problem solver will help your life. We all hate problems, but they go away once they are solved.

Feel Free To Feel Great!

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Don't It Feel Good

Don’t It Feel Good (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

You sometimes, or often have felt bad all your life, but it isn’t pertaining to people who feel good about themselves. I am referring to some of those feeling glum. I know life is a mess, but it doesn’t mean you can’t feel great about yourself. Start with something small that you appreciate, something like your garden. When you have a simple stuff making you happy, then it is starting to work. Think of the achievements you have accomplished. The classes you have passed on any subject. Be happy that you are going to start your own career. We all have missed chances in life. Most men feel bad when women turn them down, but some understand. You can go after another woman in your life, and this isn’t the end. It’s just the beginning. Your life is never going to end. Feeling with bad moods could end you. It is important to be happy and positive. When you do nothing is when you feel mean to everyone. I go on my computer, look for a subject, and then I write about it. Sports is a very great way to involve in your activities. You should be occupied. Don’t do just one thing, do several things. I bet there is a lot of work at home, and at your job too. Once you do these things, and not bother anyone, then nothing bad happens to you. Watching too many TV isn’t going to make you useful. Doing other things will. Chores are needed to be done, or you need to serve food to costumers. Anything that gets you off the couch is great. But doing negative stuff makes you feel like a loser. Be a winner!

Freedom Comes With Smarts

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Man thinking on a train journey. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

If you want to be free to do anything, then you have to accept people’s decisions, and choices. There are some people that don’t want to live our freedom. Some people hate us, but I don’t even think about it. I think if some people hate us they start to lose everything. Use your smarts to be able to do anything your mind desires. Some people use their wits for stupid little things, and other for being the evil person by owning you. My way of thinking is friendly. I don’t let anyone control my mind, and could care less of people going against me. You should think this way too. We all are big enough to do whatever we want. When we want to do things we want, and what to decide some get mad at us for it. These people are ignorant, and when they refer to you fight back. You should also defend yourself. These people have nothing on you, as they have nothing on me. Accept people for who they are. If you want freedom use your wits by outsmarting them. Feel free to decide on any person you like to be friends with. Choose by voting for a president or not voting for a president. If you don’t want to vote on anything, then it’s no problem at all. Your decisions, rights, freedoms, and liberties are yours only. Don’t ever pay attention to the jokers for some are evil. Ignore them, and live your life. Who knows maybe they already have miserable lives, and will end up this way through their entire lives. Plus the thing is you don’t have to do anything, but enjoy life. Again. Live Prosper. Love. Freedom. Be Good Towards Each Other. Peace. Liberty.

The Bad Thinking Affects You, But No One Else

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Green Thought Bubbles (Photo credit: iNkMan_)

We all have had thoughts about people we said bad about, but they didn’t even know it. I think in this case if you say bad things about other people, it doesn’t affect them, but only you. The other person doesn’t even feel it, whether they are bad or good. Your thinking has to feel positive and optimistic. Everyone had these problems before, but some take it way over the edge. Stop blaming people of the past, and let it go. When you do procrastinate, you wake up the next day not feeling well, but negative. Some people feel bad about their lives. I don’t blame you. The thing is you have to let it go, and start a new life for yourself. Forget about whatever is bothering you, and watch your favorite team trying to win games. Do the positive things, and stop procrastinating. We writers hate procrastinators. We want to hear about good things. We don’t want to hear about your problems. I’d rather hear about the good things in your life. I for one love my life, and have positive days, regardless of what else happens. You need to help your brain to stay on the right path, and it is your responsibility to show your kids of being a role model. Don’t be a procrastinator. Be a role model. Be kind to each other. Love. Peace. Freedom.