You sometimes, or often have felt bad all your life, but it isn’t pertaining to people who feel good about themselves. I am referring to some of those feeling glum. I know life is a mess, but it doesn’t mean you can’t feel great about yourself. Start with something small that you appreciate, something like your garden. When you have a simple stuff making you happy, then it is starting to work. Think of the achievements you have accomplished. The classes you have passed on any subject. Be happy that you are going to start your own career. We all have missed chances in life. Most men feel bad when women turn them down, but some understand. You can go after another woman in your life, and this isn’t the end. It’s just the beginning. Your life is never going to end. Feeling with bad moods could end you. It is important to be happy and positive. When you do nothing is when you feel mean to everyone. I go on my computer, look for a subject, and then I write about it. Sports is a very great way to involve in your activities. You should be occupied. Don’t do just one thing, do several things. I bet there is a lot of work at home, and at your job too. Once you do these things, and not bother anyone, then nothing bad happens to you. Watching too many TV isn’t going to make you useful. Doing other things will. Chores are needed to be done, or you need to serve food to costumers. Anything that gets you off the couch is great. But doing negative stuff makes you feel like a loser. Be a winner!