I have had made some mistakes that were minimal, but have learned from it. This time is for you to forgive some nice people who have made huge costly mistakes who have changed for the better. I have much experience from this. I know that some people may be offended by this, but we all learn from our mistakes. Most of us have had heartaches and think that it is all over for us. It isn’t over. You can still make it happen. We need to learn from the wrong toughest choices we have made, and remind ourselves not to do it again. Most people change and they are not the same jerks anymore. Forgive the people who have made dumb choices, and I promise you that you will come out a better person. Maybe, they want to be your friends again. I know that some other persons will still be the mean ones, but it doesn’t mean that you are also. I think in order to make peace for all of us. We need to take the extra effort of giving some other nice people another chance. It might turn out better, then the lives that some of you have had. In my view God forgives all kinds of walks of life. Try it again, and if that person doesn’t accept you, then forget about it. At least you’ve tried to give them another chance, and forgiving them. You can learn from my experience, and we can all learn from our friends’ experiences. Give people time to realize that they have made the wrong choices, and they will come around by accepting you. Just remember to give respect of all people, and their things. After all we want this world to be a better place for all of us.
Self-Help
Life is Great and Full of Wisdom
Having a sense of freedom, and caring for true friends is great. Family and friends is love. Never act like a jerk on anyone, and that is including on nice people. Be a decent person. Act like an adult, and not a jerk who for example starts taunting innocent people just for fun. If you make fun of nice people and their things you will ask for it. Love God and not the Devil. Listen to your parents wisdom. They are there to guide you. You will see a big difference of people’s personality once they act it out. This will show you who to trust and not to. Life has its many wonderful rewards. I love my life. I love my city I live in. I love my family. Having fun and caring for people will make you a better person. Care and love for people who want to help. Help yourself. Help others. Care for love, and stop caring for hating innocent stuff.
Eliminating Pessimism
I know that there are some people who think negative. They don’t pick up on stuff to be positive about. Feeling good about yourself is great news to your family. Pessimism is a gloomy cloud that wants to get into your thinking mind. How to eliminate pessimism? Take each day as a process to be and feel happy. Start with something that is positive. You can look at the day with the blue sky and white clouds outside your home. An optimistic change will gain your life positivity. Pick on something to occupy yourself, then you’ll begin to defeat pessimism.
Your Life is Meaningful, but not a Curse
No one ever has curses on their lives. I think life is supposed to be enjoyed. Life is meaningful in many ways. Think about things that make you happy. Feel positive about life. Enjoy whatever is out there. What I do is think of something that is positive and I go with it. Don’t jinx your life. Don’t let anyone jinx your life as well. Choose what you want to do. Go out and have fun. You can stay at home to relax and enjoy doing things. Read a book or magazine. Your life is not a curse. It is meaningful. The people who come up with those stuff that anyone can have a curse is not true. It is the opposite. Your life is mindful. Stop thinking about curses. Cursed don’t even exist. They are just make-believe. You are not haunted. Your life is decided by God. But, watch out what you say about things, sports teams, and people. You can get in real big trouble if you do. They say walls have ears. So, I would be extremely careful of you saying mean things at home also to anything or anyone. The best bet is to have no hatred towards anything. The choice is to like or dislike things to most of you. If you don’t like those things, then let someone else pick it up to enjoy it. It is that simple. No strings attached. Let things happen when most people or some want to for the positive. I think the most important idea to do is for most of you not to get bitter about meaningless things, for example all sports teams in general. I think that some people exaggerate almost about anything like sports, people, and etc. Choose to live life, and don’t bully anyone, wherever you are. Life is meaningful. This isn’t the end of your life. It is the beginning. Life isn’t a game of trick or treat. Life is fair, and not unfair.
One Small Thing Can Make You Happy
Some people don’t know how to make themselves have full of happiness. Small things can make a person happy. This is pure psychology thinking. If you grab a rock, count to one minute, and say you’re happy, until you are. I think you can feel positive about your spirit in you. The small things can be like sand throwing it to the river with your hands to feel that you have power to live again. Walking is not a thing, but can lift up your spirits, because people will say you’re outgoing. It’s a good thing. Let someone give you their book they have finished reading. It might be the book you want to read. Grab a pencil you just bought. Maybe, you want to write about your life. Even buying small things can enlighten up your soul. I know that things aren’t necessarily stuff that make you happy, but if you think hard it might make you feeling good. You won’t ever be sad again. All your troubles, and sorrows will be gone forever. They are washed out from the sea. Feel as once an angel is draining all your negativity out of your mind. He is putting positives inside you. These are ideas, but pretend they are things to think about. It is not that hard. You use your imagination, and then no more depression in your life. Continue reading
A Trust In Your Family And Friends
When you betray your family and friends it’s hard for them to gain your trust. But, it is possible. I always trust my family and friends. I have never betrayed them in my life. For some of you who did the process of returning to sainthood begins. The one thing you got to believe is that you can overcome this. There are others who never learn this, and they stay the same. Don’t be those people. Your family will always be with you, but your friends that’s another thing apart. The reality is change comes in weeks, and months of rehabilitating yourself. The reason why you may be lonely is because they don’t trust you anymore. Earn their trust. Change yourself into a new person who can be reliable, and not unreliable.
High School Problems aren’t The End of You
Most teens create problems in high school. I have made mistakes as a teen, but have done nothing wrong. When you are in high school you as a teen jump to conclusions fast on most of the things. I have had those kinds of problems, but it wasn’t the end of the world for me. Some of you shouldn’t worry about classmates of yours ignoring you. It’ll soon pass. Those young kids make mental errors. Their minds hasn’t oriented yet as a full adult. Most teens make huge mistakes, and they think it is correct to do so. My advice for some of you going through it is be patient. When you get older you soon make a little bit wiser choices. If you want to be famous you still can. It isn’t the end of the world when you don’t gain any friends from high school. You have to be smart that everything will turn around. Maybe, those people will realize that they were teens like you were, and ready to be friends with you as young adults in their 20’s or 30’s. I have had errors as a teen, and have made mistakes. It is because I was too young. My history life is clean. There were other teens who did make huge errors than mine. Yet, teens are young, and they should be given chances in life. So, don’t think when you graduate, and don’t have any friends is the end of the world for you. It isn’t. You can make friends elsewhere. Another thing is that some adults who were teens never wanted to orient their minds, but they are the ones who are losing out big time, and don’t pay any attention to them. They have circumstances coming, if they turn into jerks. You have done nothing wrong.
Be Yourself (don’t be an imitator!)
Be yourself when making friends, and don’t be an imitator of life. The sure thing is that people who know you love you. I think this is a time of happiness and full of hope. Go out and have fun, even if you are lonely. At least you have your parents to hang out with. If you’re in your 30’s or 40’s still living with your parents, don’t be embarrassed. Everything comes in time when it’s necessary. Be glad that your family and friends care about you. If you have talent as in a much amount, than you’ve got nothing to lose. I live with my parents, but I am creative. I don’t worry about anything. I am happy. I live life as if it is the last day of my life, and that’s how we should live. I know these look like dark days, but they aren’t believe me. Go on to online classes, get a job, or go to colleges and universities. Anything that’s full of pride helps your cause. If you are stuck in a position make the best of it. Think of something important to do. Don’t just sit there find something to be cheerful for. If I feel dark inside it is a perfect way for me to write a horror novel, because it is meant to be dark. My mind feels gloomy when I start to write something of horror, and love to write this way. I think of my life as a proud achievement of the most importance. Things will pick up once you accept the things the way they are. You are bound to get a wife or husband. I am bound to get a girlfriend. I think positive, and this is how you should think. Pessimism is a way to ruin your life. Strive to be different. People will become interested in you once you pick off a career. Start living life when you wake up from your depressed nightmare and fight off your demons with God.
Live In The Present, But Not In The Past
How many times did your family told you not to live in the past? They want you to live in the present. Some people have real problems trying to live in the present, then most of them. Maybe, their pasts does have an effect on them. If you keep thinking about the past, then you’ll be always remembered as the person who has never lived a positive life. Some past memories of us does have heartaches on us, but we can erase them. One thing you should do is focus on today, and forget about the past. Those people who have caused you harm, probably have different lives. You can’t go into details of wanting to find out why they did it. Leave all the bad past memories behind you, and start new again. Your friends don’t want to go out with you with a past mind. The way the mind works is to truly forget and erase anything that is bothering you. Maybe, those people have changed, or some are still living difficult lives. Pick up on something to entertain you, like for example movies. Don’t take anything personal. Focus on the present, and leave your gloomy mind behind. It’s one thing to enjoy today’s life, rather than moping around about it. People want other people to enjoy life the way it should by staying in the present. Another thing if you want to talk about entertainment talk about today’s. Stick to focusing in the present, and I assure you that you won’t be sad. Anyway, our pasts are erased entirely.
Staying Positive That Everything Will Work Out
Some of us think that things won’t work out for us. But, you are wrong. I stay positive on all of my expectations. I think that you should do the same. What you need to do is be patient. All these things happening against your favor, will be turned around. But, getting even with people will hurt you more. If you do, you don’t get the things you’ve dreamed of, but life gets better after that. If one thing doesn’t work out, then go on to the next. There are most people who are happy with their lives, and they aren’t tricking anyone. Accept yourself for who you are, but not by who you think you are by pretending. I know that there are people who want to trick most of us. I don’t pay it much attention, and I ignore them. Life has its circumstances, and its rewards. Staying positive means that you once have accepted that you have tried at something, but it wasn’t for you. At least you’ve had your bravery, for not all people are willing to do it. Stay happy, and be positive. Maybe, there is already something there that people like you, which you’re good at doing. If you have failed at something, find something else. I thought that I always will be a cartoonist, but it wasn’t meant for me. Later in life I have found that writing is more for me, and I think I write very well. Maybe, if you already have your talent, then don’t search for it. It’s already there. You’re already happy. There are most people who are happy without their talents. They are living their lives. But, please don’t be jealous of us, just because we have it. My advice to you is to stay positive, and happy. By not judging people you will go farther ahead, and maybe you are already. So, hang in there things will turn out better the next go around.
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