I have had made some mistakes that were minimal, but have learned from it. This time is for you to forgive some nice people who have made huge costly mistakes who have changed for the better. I have much experience from this. I know that some people may be offended by this, but we all learn from our mistakes. Most of us have had heartaches and think that it is all over for us. It isn’t over. You can still make it happen. We need to learn from the wrong toughest choices we have made, and remind ourselves not to do it again. Most people change and they are not the same jerks anymore. Forgive the people who have made dumb choices, and I promise you that you will come out a better person. Maybe, they want to be your friends again. I know that some other persons will still be the mean ones, but it doesn’t mean that you are also. I think in order to make peace for all of us. We need to take the extra effort of giving some other nice people another chance. It might turn out better, then the lives that some of you have had. In my view God forgives all kinds of walks of life. Try it again, and if that person doesn’t accept you, then forget about it. At least you’ve tried to give them another chance, and forgiving them. You can learn from my experience, and we can all learn from our friends’ experiences. Give people time to realize that they have made the wrong choices, and they will come around by accepting you. Just remember to give respect of all people, and their things. After all we want this world to be a better place for all of us.
Self Help
A New Year is Respect, Reliability, & Honesty
Starting the new year is to begin with a new clean slate of your life. Honesty, and dependability should be taken seriously. Ignore some people who are unreliable. Rely on friends and family who are reliable. The new year should be for people who want change for better promises the better-go-around. Life is filled with ups and downs of an emotional life roller coaster. There will be some people who are going to betray you and try to destroy you in any way possible. Let them get in trouble, avoid them, and don’t do anything. So, most people will see for what they are. A clean slate is to become a great person who your family can trust on. The old you is gone, and you’re not the mean person who hates and betrays nice people. I love my life, and so should you. Be aware of things around you. Be active. Control your emotions, thinking, and moods. Once you are the relaxed and confident person. People will like you for who you are, and not the person who is a bad one. God looks everywhere for whom does mischief. He is hearing your mind of malicious thoughts. God makes you pay for it. Your mind should be filled with decent thoughts. Be trustworthy and honest with your friends. Avoid anyone who has malicious laughs. Don’t complicate life, like some other bad people are already doing. Remember to not to go into people’s business. Mind your own business, and God will love you for it. Leave nice people alone. If you don’t, then you’re not making the new year pleasant for yourself. The new year is respect, reliability, and honesty. Don’t be friends with false hopes persons. Be yourself, than most people will like you.
Happiness is All that Counts
If you are happy regardless of what else happens is all that counts. I think if good or bad things go against us we all need to be and feel happy. I know the world can be kind and cruel at the same time. It has happened to me, and most of us as well. Happiness brings you everything that you want in life. In the end of your life you reign supreme of those who did you wrong they pay the circumstances. No matter how your situation is good, bad, or worse. Try to find your happiness whenever you can find it. Feeling positive in what you do is the most important. Believe in something you can build on for prosperity. Peace is all what you want right now. In these troubled times you have to find peace through whatever goes in life. In some cases things have gone wrong and good for me in some occasions. I only remember the good ones. I erase the bad ones. Some of our lives could be tainted from our success of what we achieved, but it is not so bad. I think if you look at the positives, then you can be proud of your achievements. Everyone deserves something in life. Lonely people can’t fear in lonesome forever. Happiness is all that counts right now. You can be anybody you want to be.
Finding Peace in your Mind
Let go of all the things you want to do. You can’t do all things at the same time. Stay in one time-lapse, which is your present moment. If you sleep at night, sleep. Don’t wake up in the middle of the night. Stay active. Calm your mind by not thinking of purchasing much things you want. If you are watching TV or reading stay concentrated in that simple thing. All I am advising you to do is to find your peace in your mind. Hate is not a getaway for peace. Hate is for you to go to the Gate’s of Hell. Don’t think about evil people doing the Devil’s deed. Instead find something to do like play basketball with your friends. Chess is another way to occupy yourself. Think of anything for your mind to have any peace at all. Your mind doesn’t need to invite madness everyday. Bring peace to your mind, and then you will find peace with friends and family. Don’t think about the time-lapse, stay in the relaxed time-lapse in this moment. Time doesn’t wait for anyone. Even some geniuses find that their minds need peace in some time of their moments. It doesn’t matter who you are to at least do it.
Take Time to be Amongst Family
Spend some quality of your time with family. God will thank you for it. It doesn’t hurt to talk to them. Family is there when you need them. I know some of you are angry with your family, but it will soon pass. In some other time you’ll realize that your parents are telling the truth about the problems you have. They just want you to make the right decisions. I know it seems that you hate your brothers and sisters, but the other day you will love them back. I think hate is deadly venom that once that person hates something it is doomed for suffering in life. I think by decreasing hate you will get away from that deadly venom, which is the word hate. When both people hate each other is when they are problematic. I love myself, and am not shy of forgiving others. Family is love, and caring. I love my family. Learn the word love, instead of the word hate. Your family will always be there for you. Spend some time with family, and I promise you will have the best time you’ve never had.
Delivering God’s Message
God wants all of us to care for each other, but not to destroy ourselves. We destroy ourselves by doing evil deeds for our interest. Be kind to people who get easily pushed around, whom are nice. The message from God is Be sharing and peaceful towards one another. Be forgiving of true people who want change. Do kind deeds to your nice friends. Let most of the jerks burn in their own Hell, where they already are. Have faith that your families and friends are with you 100%. Never betray God, and never tell yourself that you don’t have God with you. This is for the people who believe in God. God is love. God’s message is for everyone to be at peace.
Respecting your Fans of your Career
I have learned much respect from people of all walks of life. However, they are who they are, and things they can’t change of their lives. Fans remain loyal to their entertainers. I remain loyal to them. I think if fans say the truth about famous people they shouldn’t hate them for it. Showing respects of the average people is much better. Anyway, I think they are trying to help. These situations seem to get out of control, and could cost some celebrities lives, but not the fans. In order to stop the ones who entertain from their troubles. They should get clean and sober. This is how I view it. The doctor from rehab has no faults in all of this fiasco. The fans don’t mean any harm, but there are some that do. I am a loyal fan to those celebrities, and authors. If you don’t want your career to hit rock-bottom, then listen to your loyal fans. It makes a great worlds of wonder when you do realize what serious problem you have, and taking care of your body is of the most importance. I think for the disorderly celebrities, they should go to rehab, and listen to the doctor. It doesn’t hurt. Instead it helps, and I am not offending anyone. There is no reason to be flamboyant about it. This is your life we’re talking about. You don’t want to be a gone too soon celebrity like the others. I never get into mischief and don’t listen to anyone who wants me to. I have my common sense as should you. Fans enjoy your entertainment much, so why waste it away on stupid choices you think is right? You shouldn’t. Don’t listen to your brain. Listen to you and your family. If you ignore it, then there is your dark years, which isn’t so pleasant. I pay attention to my family, friends, and I stay loyal to my fans. I remain true to myself.
Don’t Concern and Worry about your Old Pasts’ Problems
Most of us focus on our many years ago pasts’ problems, because of the results of not having any friends. Don’t focus on the problems that have already happened to regret them, and today it has no meaning at all. Your teen problems are gone, and they should be erased in your memory. Instead, you bring something so old of your past that if affects you. It is better to consult your family for advice. If that doesn’t help consult a psychologist. Nobody should concern themselves about the old life problems we’ve had. It has happened to me before. I used to concern and worry about real old problems from high school, and there was no reason to. It is all gone in my life. I no longer should regret those times. I was a young teen by the time. Everyone goes through it. I mean in general, school, or in some other places you’ve had problems with someone whether it was their faults or yours. You don’t need to look at them for a month, or longer to learn not to do it again. The wise choice is to get advice from your parents. There the ones who know better. They have been to that road before. Most things aren’t too late, and it’s still possible. Erase all the old problems, because if not. It is going to stick with you to sting your emotions. It is a bad feeling when you are enjoying something new. Somehow your friend, or whoever, is going to notice that you have this. Forget about the people you’ve met long ago, because you won’t see them again. You don’t want to go to that old road of some have changed themselves in pitiful lives. Think for a minute that you can gain new friends, rather then the ones you’ve had in high school. It is much better to live for today. Watch a movie, show, or read a book. Play sports, or go to the cinemas to watch a new movie to erase those old awful feelings you’ve gathered for a long time. Going to a concert to see a singer or group signing their songs helps, also. The reason you have a very good memory is because you think about the old stuff too much. It’s time to break the out of that mold, and stop being labeled as you have a memorized memory by people telling you. Live for today.
This Christmas Think About…
I know most of you want to think about what you are getting this Christmas and to play with them. But, think about the sick and poor of the world. There are wars in most countries that will never be resolved. Be glad that you are here in the United States. It’s not because you can get things, and go see movies and shows. It’s about the freedom that you can do anything you want and need to do of importance. Most people in other countries and including here don’t have insurance to get well rapidly. Think of the sick, and hope they are going to get well soon from other countries. Including here in America as well. There are so many young people who are getting brainwashed by bad people to do bad things. Hope that the wars in this world will get resolved. If some wars don’t get resolved, then it is great to still think so. All over the world we see most stupid people doing things illegally and think that it is cool. Most people think this is not cool. It is not. You spend many years sick and not die from drugs for a while, but soon you’ll die young in later years. Think about the people for them to recover from drugs and alcohol. So, they won’t go into mischief again in life. Think of your family and friends. Think of the helpless, sick, and poor around the world. Worry about them and help them. Give the world a helping hand and about our planet for hope of the well being.
Freedom is Love
If you feel like you will never be happy, then take a look around your home. You are not in any danger. No one is chasing you. I know it feels as if most people: famous, important, and average hate you. You are not famous. The world doesn’t know you. It is only in small areas where you are frightened to strike up conversations with strangers. They are not sharks who feed on you. Freedom is love. Sharing is love. Caring is happiness. Forget about thinking of famous people. They don’t know you and don’t care if you exist. The most important thing is that you are secured in a place where you can do anything you want. God is watching the world to correct things. God is love. If you feel negative, then you are in your own Hell you’ve created for yourself. Take away the misery cloud and don’t let it float around your mind to pick it up again. Feel positive and let inside the brightness. It is the only way you will feel freedom. Think about things that make you happy. Most people want you to feel happy, because they like you. Remember this quote: “Freedom is Love”.
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