Joel Scott Osteen is an American preacher, televangelist, author, and the Senior Pastor of Lakewood Church in the United States in Houston, Texas. He is widely nicknamed “The Smiling Preacher”. Lakewood Church is the largest Protestant Church in the United States, in Houston, Texas. He has written over numerous books, which became successful. His first book Your Best Life Now was released by Time Warner in 2004. It was at the top of The New York Times Best Seller list. His new book You Can, You Will: 8 Undeniable Qualities of a Winner is out now in bookstores, and as Kindle Editions on Amazon.com worldwide.
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Treat Us Nice, We’ll Return The Favor!
What we want is to be treated nice, and be respected. If you do this for us, then we’ll return the favor. Once a person is treated nice and with the same respect as would you things start to be great. I think this is very important for us all. We return the favor if you treat us nice. We never forget nice people. Do something nice for a person that you’ll love the most. If you treat us mean, then you’ll be treated that way, and that’s what you are. Most people see others being nice to others, and think they can get along with them. If they see someone not nice, then they would rather avoid that person. Being nice, and acting nice is easy to do. Some people don’t think that it is easy, but rather difficult. It is easy. You just have to mean that you are a good person, respect others, and is nice to others. This isn’t difficult for anyone at any age. Once a person changes to a good one, then all what they thought of you starts to erase in their minds. Take time to consider to respect your friends things, and ideas. If you act mean towards us, then we’ll return the favor by acting mean to you, as well. The simplest way to do is to get along with all people, then people will think you’re charismatic, and a good person. Don’t fall into mischief.
Have Time To Hang Out With Family
I always hear that most people love to hang out with their friends all the time. But, in this instance I consider to hang out with my family in my spare time. What I envision is to have some days with friends, and the other days to hang out with family. When we are young we don’t want to be with our parents anymore. It doesn’t mean we don’t care about them. It means we are now adults. One thing for sure is that family doesn’t walk away from you all of the time. Take some time to have fun with family, and I promise you that you’re friends aren’t going anywhere. You can think about family and friends altogether. It is something of my offering. I think family comes first, after friends. I’m sure you too want to start a family of your own, and then you’ll soon understand what I am saying. Don’t back out on your family, just because you hang out with friends of your independence. Maybe, they miss those times when they want to talk to you. I hear parents say in their older years “I miss my sons and daughters. I hope they come back, and visit us someday.”. This is a sign where they chat with you even if it is for a spare time. Have some consideration that they still need you, because they haven’t seen you for a long time. I know you care, they also know you care, but at least show it to them. They’ll remember the days you did.
Our Mind Is Very Tricky
Some people sometimes pay attention to their minds of how their problems are. It has happened to most of us. What do we need to do if we encounter our mind jumping to conclusions? Simple. Don’t pay attention to it. If you want a pretty skinny girl, and your mind is giving you an ugly girl, then ignore it. I don’t think for a second that you’ll be fat forever as in your thinking you’ll stay this way. Sometimes the brain has a few genetic things that make you irrational. It is easy to be fooled by the mind, and really get into trouble by not thinking our problems through. In order to look at the situations at hand you need to think about how the happenings precedes it through a human’s eye. There are some people that know of trying to get rid of the negative dilemmas, but can’t. They simply need to see a shrink to tell them to fight it. Most people have to look at life at different lengths. If all of the time we look at life at the mind’s point of view, then we’re in serious trouble. Don’t listen to your irrational thinking. It is the devil that is making you jump to conclusions to most of your and everyone’s problems. Think about how to get rid of this disturbed behavior. You should think many times to fix mindless thoughts, and sceneries. So, you should be able to judge by only you what is right and wrong. The world doesn’t count your irrational thinking all of the time. By thinking clearly of the world, you’ll breathe a little easier.
To The Women Who Feel Insecure…
You can’t feel insecure, because to the men you are their inspiration. You are strong, and free spirited. You can climb any mountain. Fight your demons, and let God and Jesus Christ help you. Believe that you will have a speedy recovery. You are beautiful like a flower blossoming. You aren’t junk, but a butterfly flying in peace. You are funny, and strong-willed. Your mind is tough. You are caring. There is no need to feel insecure. If a man has been bad to you it’s not your fault it’s theirs. Remember not everything is your fault. Go on to another man who will make you feel happy and cares about you. You can be anybody you want to be. Have free-will, because you have it. You are a kind person. You belong in this world. Don’t let anybody tell you anything different. You deserve positive feedbacks, not negatives. The smartest person is you. God loves you, and we all do. Tell yourself that you are a positive, happy, and strong person everyday. Pray to God everyday that you will be cured right away. God Bless to all you women out there!!!
Be Yourself (don’t be an imitator!)
Be yourself when making friends, and don’t be an imitator of life. The sure thing is that people who know you love you. I think this is a time of happiness and full of hope. Go out and have fun, even if you are lonely. At least you have your parents to hang out with. If you’re in your 30’s or 40’s still living with your parents, don’t be embarrassed. Everything comes in time when it’s necessary. Be glad that your family and friends care about you. If you have talent as in a much amount, than you’ve got nothing to lose. I live with my parents, but I am creative. I don’t worry about anything. I am happy. I live life as if it is the last day of my life, and that’s how we should live. I know these look like dark days, but they aren’t believe me. Go on to online classes, get a job, or go to colleges and universities. Anything that’s full of pride helps your cause. If you are stuck in a position make the best of it. Think of something important to do. Don’t just sit there find something to be cheerful for. If I feel dark inside it is a perfect way for me to write a horror novel, because it is meant to be dark. My mind feels gloomy when I start to write something of horror, and love to write this way. I think of my life as a proud achievement of the most importance. Things will pick up once you accept the things the way they are. You are bound to get a wife or husband. I am bound to get a girlfriend. I think positive, and this is how you should think. Pessimism is a way to ruin your life. Strive to be different. People will become interested in you once you pick off a career. Start living life when you wake up from your depressed nightmare and fight off your demons with God.
Live In The Present, But Not In The Past
How many times did your family told you not to live in the past? They want you to live in the present. Some people have real problems trying to live in the present, then most of them. Maybe, their pasts does have an effect on them. If you keep thinking about the past, then you’ll be always remembered as the person who has never lived a positive life. Some past memories of us does have heartaches on us, but we can erase them. One thing you should do is focus on today, and forget about the past. Those people who have caused you harm, probably have different lives. You can’t go into details of wanting to find out why they did it. Leave all the bad past memories behind you, and start new again. Your friends don’t want to go out with you with a past mind. The way the mind works is to truly forget and erase anything that is bothering you. Maybe, those people have changed, or some are still living difficult lives. Pick up on something to entertain you, like for example movies. Don’t take anything personal. Focus on the present, and leave your gloomy mind behind. It’s one thing to enjoy today’s life, rather than moping around about it. People want other people to enjoy life the way it should by staying in the present. Another thing if you want to talk about entertainment talk about today’s. Stick to focusing in the present, and I assure you that you won’t be sad. Anyway, our pasts are erased entirely.
Staying Positive That Everything Will Work Out
Some of us think that things won’t work out for us. But, you are wrong. I stay positive on all of my expectations. I think that you should do the same. What you need to do is be patient. All these things happening against your favor, will be turned around. But, getting even with people will hurt you more. If you do, you don’t get the things you’ve dreamed of, but life gets better after that. If one thing doesn’t work out, then go on to the next. There are most people who are happy with their lives, and they aren’t tricking anyone. Accept yourself for who you are, but not by who you think you are by pretending. I know that there are people who want to trick most of us. I don’t pay it much attention, and I ignore them. Life has its circumstances, and its rewards. Staying positive means that you once have accepted that you have tried at something, but it wasn’t for you. At least you’ve had your bravery, for not all people are willing to do it. Stay happy, and be positive. Maybe, there is already something there that people like you, which you’re good at doing. If you have failed at something, find something else. I thought that I always will be a cartoonist, but it wasn’t meant for me. Later in life I have found that writing is more for me, and I think I write very well. Maybe, if you already have your talent, then don’t search for it. It’s already there. You’re already happy. There are most people who are happy without their talents. They are living their lives. But, please don’t be jealous of us, just because we have it. My advice to you is to stay positive, and happy. By not judging people you will go farther ahead, and maybe you are already. So, hang in there things will turn out better the next go around.
Do Something To Blow-off Depression
We all have painful memories, and some of us become depressed of it. I think the smart thing to do is find a job to blow off your bad feelings. The other way you can help yourself is by doing exercise, and watch TV for entertainment. You can watch sports, movies, concerts, or shows. My time is sitting on the couch reading anything that is educational, and for study. It takes days to blow-off your depression, and it can take about two months. The simple thing is to let go of your loved ones that aren’t longer there in your life. Of, course it doesn’t hurt to remember them, but they would want you to move on. Being sad your entire life won’t help your sanity. I think by being fully happy of accepting who you are, then people will like you more. Being on your own is tough, but stick through it by solving your feelings, then you’ll be doing just fine. I don’t weep all through my life thinking of my past negative events. Besides, I am going to online writing classes, and keep myself busy all the time. You should find some time to think things through, before you go on your own. Don’t be a sadistic. Find yourself useful, and be the most important person for your family, and friends. The first best start is the heavy blow of depression, which your positivity will come back to you.
Motivational Song: Make It Happen By Mariah Carey
This is a song you can wake up positive to. It means that you have to believe in yourself. The song Make It happen keeps you motivated to conquer what you want to accomplish. It says if you pray to God, and believe in yourself, you can make. it. happen. Those three little golden words keep you inspired. If you are inspired in your work, and stop listening to negative criticism, then you are doing the right thing. It is time to listen to this song to erase all those negative feelings. I wake up thinking of this song by believing in myself, and getting myself inspired. The only three little words is to Make. It. Happen. Keep reminding yourself with this song, and you won’t regret it. She wrote this song for her fans to believe in themselves. Some critics want to put us down, but never listen to anybody who wants to put you down, because it is hurtful. Just do what you have to do, and stick to it. This is a song for people who want to make their dreams come true. It’s you that can Make. It. Happen. Don’t let anyone discourage you.
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