Some people always carry demons with them. It can even kill their Holy Spirit, because of it. These people regret their bad mistakes in their awful pasts. I think this is one way that they stay inside several humans’ minds to give them Hell. They sometimes go away, but come back when terrible opportunities hits at some people. We need to stop clouding up our minds with negative experiences. Just think about happy memories, and be positive. The simplest thing to do is just go out to experience positive events. Read the inspirational book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne to feel better about yourself. Apply every positive message from this book, and you will feel the happy results. Do away with demons in your minds clouding your judgments. Once you do this those demons won’t be there anymore. I think this one post for some of you is the first positive step to bring back your care-free positive life again.
Self-Help
Don’t Let That Painful Past Year Ruin Your LIfe
Some people have felt that they can’t erase those former past negative years behind, and it’s difficult for them to do so. The negative years’ pasts are over and done with. Some of us were affected by it, and can’t seem why. If the negative past year has happened like 30 or so years ago, then let it go. Don’t hold it in for memory safe keeping. It’s bad for your health. It ruins your whole life of enjoying things anywhere you go in the present. That year is so into you and in your human system. I think thinking about the negative year isn’t healthy. Some people have problems grasping the positive years. Most of us have been there before. The reason is that it is easy to be negative and reflect on it, while it is hard to be positive. Bring your full effort to be happy again. The things you enjoyed of the past year doesn’t have to do with your personal past year lives. Anyway, that negative is gone, and over with. Do this just say that you’ve had a good time with friends and always thought positive anyhow. We all aren’t perfect. In that way no one will really consider you as a sadistic person, if you fully erase those past awful years now. You need to be happy and positive. Stay normal and optimistic that everything in the present is great.
Finding Lies In Most False People And Whom To Trust
Most of us get deceived by false people pretending to be our friends. What to do if this occurs again? Just see who is lying, cheating, or who is honest, truthful. I know this is the most difficult, but we need to test them. I don’t think that some bad people really change, because they stay the same. It goes day-by-day to see if this person is hiding something under his/her sleeve. Check if someone has pulled their tricks in their mind box. One way to see is when they use their malicious laughs, and stand in a jerk position. Check on your friends to see who is loyal to you. See if you’ve caught them in a lie when they are lying to you, by watching their face. If s/he isn’t to be trusted give them the silent treatment and walk away from their lives. Be careful of mean people trying to ruin their lives, because they’ll be caught their lives in jeopardy deservedly so. Hang out with people who care about you and are your real friends. Our experiences in life should know whom to trust the most.
Stay Happy and Forget The Jerks
Be positive. Stay away from the jerks who’ve never changed. Don’t let them mislead you. Be happy. Erase negative people from your life. What I do is to forget about the silly people who are bad. I love to be optimistic and positive. I live happy. Strive to be happy. Enjoy the beautiful day. Listen to music you love, for example I love hip-hop and rap. Hang with friends that are true to you. Ignore negativism. Bring in positivism. Trust in God that everything is cool. I am cool. You are cool. I am Okay. You are Okay. Most of us are Okay. Live life with family and friends. Trust in God and the Heavens. Believe there is a Heaven and a Hell. Stay true to yourself. Strive to be the best. The last thing is be positive.
Evrything should be Cool with You
Most people feel they are cool. Everything has to be cool with you, if you want a glorious career. You have to be cool with most people. It all depends on you. It also depends on me. It depends on all of us. If you want people to accept you. You need to be forgiving and sharing. I have learned through the course of the world that all things need to be cool with me. It means no anger, jealousy, and hatred towards others. Anyway, the world isn’t perfect, so let’s just, say most of us. You need to be cool, even if some situations aren’t. I am cool with you and you are cool with me. It is easy to accept. Being cool means that nothing is bothering and disturbing you. You should feel that heaviness has been lifted towards your shoulders. Don’t get into mixed feelings in the present, because it makes matters worse for the negatives. Be happy means that you are cool. Feeling fine also means the same. Once you practice these steps everything turns out well.
Leave the Past Behind and Make Amends (regardless of how painful your past was)
I can understand that some of you are withholding the painful pasts most on us that we have caused upon you. I think it is time to leave them behind and make amends with most of us. Keeping such a memory of how we were and reflecting it on us is sometimes bad. We shouldn’t blame some other nice people, just because of the cause they did on you years ago. It is all in the past. Don’t hold a grudge on most of us. It already happened. I think there is no reason to keep avoiding most nice people, because of it. What do you get out of it? Nothing, but just negative mood swings your entire lifetime. Even if you think you’re happy, you’re not. The present is all that matters right now. We should live on the optimistic, the happiest, and the positives. If you feel hate on certain nice people remember it’s not on them, but it’s only reflecting on you. They feel rejected, but you feel it more. The world isn’t against you, even if you still feel this way. Most of us are going to feel positive, optimistic, and happy, regardless of your anger or hate towards us. The world will still be healthy. It’s only on you making the events negative for yourself, and not on us. Should you change you need to be happy, forgive nice people, and care for them. Make amends with all your friends and families. You are the only one feeling it and viewing it as your negative windows of perceiving through your view of the world. It’s you making your mind feel sick and betrayed upon you. Most of us have the windows positive and healthy. I think leaving the bad vibes behind is for the best forever.
Having a Perfect Memory can be Painful Sometimes
You can’t have a perfect memory for the rest of your life. The reason I am saying is because you’ll remember the painful memories as well. Just try to remember the happy times you’ve had in your life. I don’t get that some people need to remember the negatives in order not to do bad things again. You can think about not doing bad things again, and still not remember the painful memories. The bad stuff in your life isn’t going to make you positive. In fact it makes you arrogant and a struggling person. The struggles are the most you’ll remember. This isn’t the way to change your life. Try to build positive new memories you’ll remember for the rest of your life. Try to leave the painful pasts behind. Live for today. It takes day by day to forget all those awful past events you have bunched up in your mind.
Positivism is to Regain It
Once you feel sorry for yourself, you begin to feel that everyone hates you. This is paranoia. No one hates you. Try to regain your positivism back. It doesn’t take one day, but it will be your human effort towards it. I know right now you are thinking to yourself that you can’t, but you can. You just have to trust yourself, but not your mind. Your mind plays tricks on you, and this is why some of you have paranoia. Feeling great about yourself is a huge step towards rebuilding humanity. Try to think of one simple thing to be happy about. It can be your parents loving you. It can be that your plants are happy. One little thing can make you positive again. If I feel out of focus I think of one simple thing to regain positivism back. All of us want to be positive. Don’t be positive for the wrong reasons, but for the right ones. You can regain your positive side by loving and caring for animals. Domestic dogs caring for you is another way for you to feel positive. Positivism is all around us. We just have to use it the right way.
Relive your Good Old Memories
Most of us want to think on the negative memories, because of something that we can’t get of its being elusive. It’s time to relive your good old memories when you had fun with friends and family. Never remember the bad ones, unless if it serves as not doing anything bad in the present. Bad memories are there to learn from them, and not to do it again in the present time. But, I would consider remembering the good memories I’ve had with friends and family. Erase any negative memories that have caused you depression. Always create wonderful new memories. Don’t lose hope. Be happy. Get away from the dark clouds. Avoid the dark side. Embrace the bright side. Listen to your parents’ advice. Keep in mind that you can relive your good memories. Erase the unpleasant ones. Live to strive for success and staying positive.
Stop Blaming Friends for Old, Old Problems
We have had problems at some point, which sometimes were our faults. I think it is time to stop blaming your friends for problems they have committed many years ago. I know it feels painful for some of you, but feel positive and get over it. These problems are old. You could reminisce about your 80’s and 90’s problems, but don’t blame all those on your old friends today. I think the memories are to learn from them. You should remember the good times you’ve had with your buddies. Don’t bring out the 90’s problems that some of your friends have caused on you, for example. Maybe, some have changed. If they didn’t, then stop worrying about it. Live your life. It doesn’t matter how old you are. Stop singing that tune of blaming others for pasts’ problems. Enjoy what life has to offer. I think it is better not to remember them at all. Start with a clean slate. Find a job. Make friends. Enjoy your family’s company. Cherish every minute you will spend in the world. Forget about the old decades that have caused you misery. Live in the present decade. The old decades are gone now, and it is only old memories. However, you view from it (good or bad memory views). I choose to view it as most wonderful memories I’ve had, but not to get too nostalgic in it. If you do this you won’t feel strange at all anymore.
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