We have had problems at some point, which sometimes were our faults. I think it is time to stop blaming your friends for problems they have committed many years ago. I know it feels painful for some of you, but feel positive and get over it. These problems are old. You could reminisce about your 80’s and 90’s problems, but don’t blame all those on your old friends today. I think the memories are to learn from them. You should remember the good times you’ve had with your buddies. Don’t bring out the 90’s problems that some of your friends have caused on you, for example. Maybe, some have changed. If they didn’t, then stop worrying about it. Live your life. It doesn’t matter how old you are. Stop singing that tune of blaming others for pasts’ problems. Enjoy what life has to offer. I think it is better not to remember them at all. Start with a clean slate. Find a job. Make friends. Enjoy your family’s company. Cherish every minute you will spend in the world. Forget about the old decades that have caused you misery. Live in the present decade. The old decades are gone now, and it is only old memories. However, you view from it (good or bad memory views). I choose to view it as most wonderful memories I’ve had, but not to get too nostalgic in it. If you do this you won’t feel strange at all anymore.