If you want to have a sense of humor, and people to like you. You need to use light jokes that aren’t hurtful, if you intend to kid around. Most of us have used tough and mean jokes, and we have paid for it. I was one of them. I used mean jokes to have a sense of humor without hurting anyone. The result was a very bad one, and I regretted it. Now I use light jokes, but don’t joke around most of the time. Most people would want you to talk to them in a normal conversation. Remember that not everyone likes to joke around, and you should be careful. If you joke around with the wrong person, then that person will think you’re a jerk. You will have to explain yourself why you did it. Some other people mean to hurt others by using mean and tough jokes. I never had that intention to hurt anyone. Sometimes some of my jokes have backfired on me. I have learned what are mean jokes, and which ones are appropriate to tell to friends and family. By no means so far have I felt bad about it this year. In the past when I did wrong yes, but never to remember it. It is always better to have a sense of humor and be serious in important times, but don’t do it to hurt people. The perfect solution is to have a normal conversation, and don’t ever appear as The Joker in Batman comic books. My advice is avoid any funny disturbances in your mind and joke only for a small amount of time without hurting anyone. By the time you will have normal conversations. You will thank me for this. Don’t use “The Joker” routine. Be yourself.