You shouldn’t turn down your family over bad friends, because if you do, you’ll regret it at the end. You are only a kid for the moment. I think you have to listen to your parents. They help you in the troubles you are in. Your sisters, and brothers can also help you stay in school. Don’t waste your life on things that don’t matter, especially if the bullies want to turn you into them. It’s not worth it. It is also not worth fighting to a jerk. Just walk away. Study hard for a career. Be something of yourself. Don’t be down on the dumps. Feel positive and take your family’s advice to solve all your problems. Nobody is perfect. We know that. Turn your life around and let the teachers guide you in school. Have a healthy life and career, without the jerks around you.
Self-Help
Be Happy That You Have Your Family
Most of us should be happy that we have our families, and even our friends. But, family comes first. Family is the most important. They are there for you and they care about you. You should be happy that you have your family, even if you have a few friends. Don’t demoralize yourself about not having many friends, because I think you will get it later in your life. Life is suppose to be enjoyed. We are all to err in our lives, and we’re all human. Even I am human. I have learned to give back to families and friends. The one thing that I am proud of is that I took out the mean person in me. I started to bring the nice person of who I am in real life. I think this approach most of you should do. In fact I want most of you to forget about the dark pasts and forgive others who want to change for good. This is an excellent assignment for most of you. Be happy for what you got, because not all people have it. All I am asking is change for the positive life. People will come back to you friendly and want to be your friends. Your family will want you back in their lives. There is nothing to lose in the present, because the past is over. Listen to yourself and not the jerks who push you around. You’ll be surprised of how some other people were lost in their lives trying to be the nice person and defining suddenly what is good. We should throw out the bad and the mean side. We should be nice people. It is easy to do, and it isn’t so hard to do. I have done it, and you should too. Just forget about the past and stick to the present.
Start Being Happy for Yourself
All of us know it is easy to feel bad about ourselves and do bad things. But, both of those things are wrong. What you can do is try to do something good for other people. They will thank you for it. Be happy for yourself. You is the most important person. Remember that we don’t come in second place. We are our first priority. Choose something positive about yourself, even if it is one simple thing. For example, your sister invited you to go see a movie and thought it is awesome. Thinking of small things don’t really hurt you. It just makes you have a happy smile. Think of doing the right thing, before you take any action you might regret on some events. Think of yourself as unique, even if your past didn’t seem like you wanted it to be. We all have dark pasts of our lives. It would be nice to forget them, and let them be bygones. I think that learning your lessons in life is the best policy. I have, and we all have. Think of tomorrow as another opportunity. Think of it as a positive life adventure. Don’t demonize yourself all day, because then you’ll be grumpy and mean. Those were our stages for most of us, and have learned from them. It is great to take these advices. But, if you prefer something else to make you happy like buying one of Joel Osteen’s books like I, Declare, be my guest. We will only be on planet Earth only once and won’t return back. So, cheer up and think of joyful things.
Don’t Be Slave To Your Negatives’ pasts
There are some people who reflect on the bad past, and think that they are worthless. This is a wrong kind of thinking. Some of you can’t live like this. I think remembering the negative’s past is like hurting your holy spirit. Instead remember the good times, and don’t feel slaved to your bad pasts. Live life like your proud of yourself. Be happy and positive. Stay true to yourself. The thing you can do is try to read self-help books that will help you be optimistic. Whatever you’ve done wrong, and want to be a good person again. You can still be a good person. Try to feel good. Find something positive in your life today that can help you put yourself back on your feet. Be peaceful. Be friendly to all people, and including yourself. Don’t be somebody you’re not. Be positive and reflect on your positive past, think for today, and stop living in the past.
Be Optimistic
I always hear most stories of people being depressed all the time, and theirs are of small problems that can be fixed. I think most of us take life for granted. Your life doesn’t end as in your teen years. It keeps on going. Pretty soon you’re going to have no problems at all in your future life. All you have to do is change your attitude and behavior. Also, change your mood swings. We don’t want to see your violent side, and be victims from it. Anger causes many chaotic violence. I always say if you’re depressed, then why don’t you go to the “Through The Never-ending Misery Tour”. Maybe, then you will change your mind of how lucky your life is. Most of us have had tough lives, but it doesn’t mean it can’t be changed. Look at the other things that are positive on your life. You’re the only one who should make yourself happy. Be optimistic. Be bright. You’ll surprise everyone once you leave out old habits behind. Enjoy your life, and stop ending it foolishly. You will live only once on this planet. Might as well make the best of it.
Be Family and Friends with Your Parents!
One advise I would tell some of you who are angry with your parents and hate them. Just bond with them. Most of the time teens don’t understand their parents at all, but your parents want the best for you. Remember back from the time when you were a kid, and told them that you’re never going to be upset with them. Most of us have problems and some of us get angry and hate them. Stop the hate! Love and care for them. They aren’t going to be around for you so long. This is a time of bonding with them. They’re the ones who care for you. They want you to get help, and not to have your life in total chaos. Just listen to them and let them help you. There’s no reason for hate and anger. I think some of you should settle your differences. However, you or your parents are wrong about some things try to understand each other. Maybe, the person that is wrong is you. Think before you make a huge mistake that will cost your life. Think twice about it and take their advice! Listen from a grown adult that has been there, and not from someone who really doesn’t care. Listen to those who do. Your life can be turned around. It’s never too late to change your life!
Don’t Get Depression For Your Entire Life
Most of us are trying to solve our problems. We can’t hate each other, because of pasts personal reason. There is one reason that God showed us to forgive nice people for what has gone wrong in the pasts. We can’t let the past get to us. I think the more you hate certain people the more depression you’re going to have. It is for a fact. You can tell me if I’m right or wrong, but it is a fact. We should be happy for solving our problems, and not going to war with each other. Don’t let depression run your entire life by hating others. Hating is poison. You give fear to some people who didn’t mean to do it. Let most of us solve our problems with each other. We can’t live like this, but if you want it’s your loss, and not ours. It is that simple. God gives second chances to all of us. I think you should do the same for most of us. Don’t live a lie by pretending that you hate some certain nice people. This is another poison. If you give in to the devil, then you let him to carry that poison, which you think it feels great. This is a false truth of seeing poison as not, and seeing it as another good thing, which isn’t poison. Well, if you want to do it, be my guest. We’re not stopping you. For those who want to live life by giving other people second chances, then you have brought God to your life, and happiness shines on you once again forever. Be happy and be good to each other. Don’t start any wars and battles with anybody. Most of our pasts are forgotten. So is mine’s and yours. Take a chance for light to guide you towards good faith and wisdom.
Think Free
You have a right to think whatever you want. Being free is peace. I do things when I want, and where I want. For most of you this is the right pace. Befriend strangers who need friends. The more friends you have the better. Think of empty space. Space is not nothing and it is something. We just don’t talk to it and have a conversation with it. Make friends with people you’ve been friends before. It will make your life easier if you do. This is the smartest way to be the most happiest. Peace is love. Think of anything you want. Be interested in entertainment. For example I love to watch action, fantasy, and drama movies. I also love watching astronomy shows. Live free to do whatever you want to do. Having confidence and being secure is great. Feel positive about a tiny thing. It could be anything. For example I love seeing the trees that are receiving water all the time. I love watching animals. I love animals. Those are great examples of being free. Another example is that I love the Miami Hurricanes, Miami Heat, Miami Dolphins, and the Florida Gators win all their games. I think by being free and thinking free you will feel flow around you. Anyway, those are really my favorite teams for real. One reminder is to Think Free.
Living In Peace and Harmony
If you want peace make peace with all people. Especially love your family and friends. God gave you love. It’s time to show compassion to your family. Living in peace and harmony is getting along with everyone. Some people won’t change, but showing sportsmanship is best. Think of the happy places you’ve been to. Think of your family always in memories. If you own a dog show him love. Love one another. Peace is love. Your greatest gifts are peace and harmony. Like John Lennon once said, “Give Peace A chance.” It goes the same for you all. Remember no worries, and no problems. Love conquers all.
Live Your Life (…And Don’t Go for Revenge)
However, you have lost against a bully in any way, and you are now living your life happy. Don’t look for vengeance of solving of what you’ve lost. I know some of you have lost against bullies in a fight against their words, or simply fighting against each other. Don’t go back to them, and try to be the hero. What you have gained, they already lost. It is as simple as that. Live your life with your friends, and family. Going back for revenge can cost you dearly. Let’s say you want to settle the score against a bully, you have won your revenge, but your girlfriend has witnessed the whole incident. Do you think that she’ll be happy for you? No! She will dump you, and would think that you have turned to their level. Don’t settle the score. Live your life. I think by getting revenge is the worst thing you could ever do. You hurt yourself emotionally, even though you still have friends. You will lose someone you love. Forget about the bullies who have bothered you in the past, and let it go. Be happy, positive, and optimistic. Do the smart thing. Enjoy your life. Don’t settle any of the negative problems you’ve had with someone from your past. Be happy. Bad pasts are supposed to be forgotten. Begin a new life, and erase the old one by letting it go.
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