I don’t necessarily mean to make peace with all your enemies, but the ones who won’t bother you again. This is what I mean. You’ll rest easy once you forgive most of your enemies. Stop thinking of the painful pasts, ad just erase it. Maybe, most of your enemies have had painful memories before, too. Have you thought about that? Also, make peace with refs, and the rest of the world. One thing I need to tell you it’s not easy being a referee of any sport, and it’s not what some fans think. Relax, and enjoy with whatever you are watching. Of course, somebody in the future will bother you, but maybe that person doesn’t mean it, or intends to mean it. Ignore it. You never know with some people. However, not all of your enemies have friendly parents, and you should consider why they’re doing this to you. Maybe, they will change for good, or perhaps not. But, once you forgive most of your enemies ( not all of them). You’ll soon be happy. I have had enemies before, and I intend to forgive them, but not those who intend to be mean in the future. Enjoy life, maybe your life will be better than theirs. This is the reason you must forgive them, because some might return the favor for you. There might be huge surprises ahead in your future. You never know. Time heals if you let it. Stay happy and healthy. High School problems aren’t a big deal, and it isn’t what you might expect. It’ll soon pass. You are there to get an education and a career. It’s only the beginning to dream and believe big. This isn’t a one-time stop for you. The world is scary yes, but achieve your dreams, and make peace with your enemies. Some might be your friends later on, or not. The world won’t be scary for you anymore, and it’ll be friendly.
Self Help
Most People Do Care About Decent People
It looks like most people don’t care about decent people, but they do. I know it is hard not seeing your friends anymore. They still love you, and believe me they think about you all the time. There are people that do care about your life. No one wants to see decent people get hurt, and be lonely. If you are happy things will brighten up. One things strangers can’t do is go into your life, but it doesn’t mean they don’t care. They do. I think we have to think about ourselves only, which we are the most important people in the world. Cheer up! People want to see you happy. Decent people should feel independent. Life has second chances for most of us. Learning to cope with your problems is helpful, but you also needs friends around you to sooth your needs. The smart thing to do is to be happy. Listen to your inner voice giving you self-esteem. Go walk outside around the community, and you’ll see that people will let you do anything you want. Feel free to make friends anywhere you want. I have friends in stores, restaurants, and I get along with them fine. Once you accept that you don’t see your old friends anymore, you’ll start to realize that they haven’t forgotten about you. Maybe, you’ll see them again in another time. You have made them happy, and they have made you happy. I would tell you not to judge a book by its cover. They want to see you again, but they have a clear memory of you. You have never left them, and they have never left you. You are in their hearts, and minds. It’s time also to make new friends. The old friends you will still have in return. People do care.
Use Your Common Sense
You are smart enough not to make fun of, or mock anything, and anyone. Your common sense tells you not to do the wrong choices. People are different, and they deserve respect. When you go out with friends your brain is intelligent enough to say no to things that do you harm. Don’t ever betray your friends. Don’t betray innocent strangers, if they’re famous, or not. By using common sense this helps you lead a normal, and healthy life. However, there are some people who aren’t normal, and are nice. If someone ask you to smoke drugs say “No!”. If someone tries to bring you into the wrong crowds walk away. Avoid any person who wants to hurt you. You shouldn’t care who they are, in what shape they are, and whatever position they are in. Your life is more important. The people who hurts innocent people do pay the circumstances. Use your conscience as your guide. There are some people who want to do the right thing, but they do the contrary. These persons lead horrible lives after they decide the wrong decision. You don’t want to do that. I know you don’t. Don’t be scared, and nervous to do the right choices. Common sense is there in your mind to use it well. Trust in yourself, instead of trusting evil people. Let your family help you to make the right choices.
It’s Easy To Enjoy Entertainment, but Erase Your Painful Pasts
We all have had painful pasts in one way or another. I have almost had it part of my life, but I tried to enjoy entertainment anyway I could. It’s easy to enjoy entertainment. I still feel some of that sting from some painful memories, but hours after I erase them. The smartest gimmick is pretending that you’ve never had them, even if you did. We are err to human. I am not afraid to show which kind of entertainment I love. It’s so easy for most people to be angry with a certain person. I’ve had had that experience before, but I still kept enjoying entertainment. Another smart gimmick is if it doesn’t work for you in that area, look for another one. I am easygoing, and I guess most of you are already. We feel pity when we didn’t have what we wanted to have before, and they did. We probably deserved that punishment. In some cases I know I have. I have learned from them, and so should you. It’s better to chill out. Have fun with whatever you love and like. I have heard some stories that were the same as mine, too. The one thing I can tell them if you’re nice, and your friends don’t know it yet. Hang in there. There’s bound for people to believe you. They will eventually realize that you’ve changed into being nice, like I have. Just erase all those painful pasts like I am trying to. I know it stings, but deleting it from your memory is great. Make other enjoyable memories for yourself. Focus on the present, and you won’t have painful memories in the present like before. It all comes down to enjoying what you do best, and be entertained by entertainment out there.
Happy Thoughts
Happy thoughts usually occur when you feel and think happy. You don’t get those destructive thoughts that some people do. Start building your mind with self-esteem by creating positive words. Words in your mind does mean a great deal. Having those peaceful moments when you hang out with friends by trying to say the right words is important. Think of something that isn’t of any harm, and trust those happy thoughts that bring you comfort. It shows sometimes when you think of violent thoughts, and it isn’t safe to think this way. The reason I am saying is that you don’t want to drive a vehicle with negative or malicious thoughts blooming all across your forehead. I know that driving in some places is a hassle, but try to calm your thoughts. In this way you don’t fight with other drivers when it is your, or their faults at any wrong simple thing you misleadingly think has happened. It is better not to fight. Think of words of comfort. Don’t use hopeless words by quitting on yourself. Stop using defeating words and think happy thoughts. Once you think of happy thoughts you will get along with friends, and families. Sadness won’t turn your life around, but being happy will. I know these things take time, but it works.
Every Little Happiness Helps
Once you go about your story that you don’t have any friends to hang out with, then you’re wrong. You are miscalculating your values of life. Think of it this way: I am happy, and you are happy. It’s as simple as that. Find one little thing to be happy for, then build on it. It could be reading a book you’ve purchased, or watching a movie you rented. It could either be you are going on a date with a friend you like. Don’t jump overboard that you will have an isolated social life forever. Most people overcome it, and they get many friends at the end. They are happy in the present, but forgot the negative pasts. Think of positive memories as another small thing you can be happy about. This is what you should be doing. Life has its ups and downs. Stop arguing on which girl didn’t grab your attention, just look for another one. I have jumped to conclusions many times, but came to realize that I have many friends. If you need comfort, don’t worry friends are coming your way. You have cool clothes to wear. That wasn’t hard. Is it? No. Life is happy. You love music, movies, and sightseeing on trips like California, or New York. These are the positives you need to think about. Think about small positive words, then you’ll begin to feel happy. Be glad that there is optimism everywhere.
Enjoy Life, While It Lasts!
We don’t have any idea when we are going to die, but we can’t worry about that now. We need to live life, and fulfill our destiny. There are so many things to be thankful for. At this moment don’t worry about everything that is going to happen, or something you want accomplished. Instead live life happy right now at this moment. We are going to live longer or shorter lives, but there’s no time to worry about that now. We can enjoy life whatever the results are going to be. Be happy for your friends, and families. Live for today, and stop worrying about the future. Happiness comes in today, not for the further future, that you have to wait desperately to be happy. Happiness is right now at this moment. Take advantage of today by living positive, and optimistic. Love. Peace. 🙂 🙂 🙂
Have Patience On Your Life And Career (Friends will come back to you)
I know most of us feel and act like kids when we don’t get our way. I have, but take it easy in High School on wishing for big dreams to be an actor, cartoonist, writer, or etc. These things take time to accomplish as you grow up. Things and friends will come back to you, if don’t have a happy social life, depending on your attitude and moods. These things take time. I sometimes used to feel angry when things like magazines and books didn’t come the day it was supposed to, and this is me acting like a kid, but I get over it easily. The mind is always tricky, and most of the time it tells you that it’s the end of the world, and you’ll be isolated for life. People change, and don’t always stay the same, unless you change positive. I have had bad thinking before, and most of us have. Some of us don’t want to grow up. I am more mature now. I am a little shy, but am getting accustomed to not be. I am not scared, but have some little defects, and most of us do. In my mind when I don’t get the things I want I get mad inside, but I don’t act it out anywhere or anyplace. For some people it takes time for them to be happy, like I used to be. The best thing to do is keep it inside, and get rid of it. My best solution is to always look at the bright sides on all areas of the your darkest days. I have regretted things that I shouldn’t have done wrong to people some days before, but I learn from it from time to time. I am optimistic, and could care regardless of how old I am. In my life I discount all the things like books, movies, and things that satisfy me, which I shouldn’t care for. We should enjoy them, like you, and I do, and go on with our lives that count the most. I don’t care about useless things, we should care about our lives, friends, and families. Growing pains is part of growing up. We will live happier days, regardless of the results bad or good. Remember one thing we all are different, think different, and some are smarter than us in life. What I appreciate the most is my life, and God. The problems will go away, regardless of your age, and people will come back to you. It will happen to me, as it will to you. Have patience, because most of you are young, and life shouldn’t be wasted, because of useless things. Life counts the most. Don’t ever act you’ll be a kid forever for that is a curse upon yourself. Be an adult, accepts all days as it occurs in any way, and keep away all the junk coming your way, instead enjoy them. . Your life and God is your most important priority.
Avoid Any Silly Bullies
Have you ever encountered bullies that give you a hard time? I have, and so did you. They have told me many times that my teams suck, and I am a loser. You want to know what? They suck, are jerks, and losers. Anyone who tells you that your life sucks, you should tell them the same back at them. I am a winner. I think anyone who is younger and older than you who bullies you, should pay the circumstances, and penalties. But, we have to enjoy life, because the things we go for aren’t important. They are just there to enjoy it, and not make a big deal about it. Some of the bullies are hidden, and you may not know it. I think this is unfair, but it is what it is. Someone like that enjoy doing it at our expense, but they turn out with ugly lives at the end. I really mean real ugly worst lives. We should forget about them, and let them celebrate their jealousy way for who they are. Us nice people feel free and happy. We are decent happy people without doing tricks on anybody. We don’t call ourselves softies. We are strong-minded people, and don’t let anything bother us. Remember it’s the bullies of any age, shape, and form who feel hyper happy bad people. We are happy normal people. We nice decent people go to Heaven. Be nice to people whoever you are, and don’t trick anyone behind their backs, because it could haunt you forever when you sleep. It could even haunt you when you’re awake. Think like a nice person, and don’t think like a flamboyant bully. Stay true to yourself whatever the results may be, because it’s the bullies who lead troubled lives, and never get closer to God. God dislikes flamboyant bullies. I and you all have our God, but the mean flamboyant people don’t have theirs. Stay cool, be nice to everyone, don’t act evil flamboyant, and be positive.
Make Peace, Not War
I think all of us should make peace with each other, and not let us change our choices. Whatever the situation is you have to let people go for the things they want to, and not by you want. Have other people changed your way of deciding your choices? No. See! What you need to do is make peace, love each other, and avoid making war with people. It’s alright to be competitive with each other, but not the hurtful way. This is the only solution for you not to do that evil laugh, because if no one sees it or do, you’ll end up paying for it. We can do anything we want to, and not by some jerks’ decisions putting venom in our minds. We are free-minded people. If we want to do good deeds to nice decent people, then let us. People who don’t enjoy life, don’t make peace with each other. We didn’t ever did mean things to jerks before we didn’t know them. Let go of those pasts. By living in peace and harmony is the best choice, because people are going to do whatever they want. This is your life spend time to get to know nice people, and let them enjoy their entertainments, sports, and careers. Let them decide for whatever team they want to go for. It’s part of the fun, and being competitive. People who make war with us are always the ones who loses at the end. Respect people who are innocent. Make peace, not war. Because the world will stay the same, but we can change ourselves for the good of mankind.
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