The Present is Always Your Friend

There is nothing better than the positive present of your life. I think nobody needs to think of how their futures are going to look like, because focusing on the future takes away most of your energy to perform positive in the present. It is better not to think of the past and the future. The present is the one you should be focused on. Not everyone’s time at the moment will be perfect. Most people have obstacles in their way. It is better to walk away from those negative events. To perform at today in that time you need to feel positive and realize that you are important. Don’t worry if it doesn’t come at that instance, because it will come a few minutes from now. Remember the present is always your friend and it is trying to help you. You have God inside you, as I do too. Live in the present and stop making up your future in your mind, which you know it might or might not happen the way you thought of. Most people think about their future and they make it up, because they think they already know what’s going to happen. We all don’t really know. We just keep guessing. It will only make you negative and you will make mistakes in the moment, because of it. Think and feel the present. Use it happy and positive. The present moment is the best time you will have in your lifetime. Trust me. You will begin to be happier about yourself.

True Life Quotes #19

“Most people realized that they let down Batman. They apologized to him. They are now willing to help him defeat the Joker’s evil ways with help from him. The whole world now believes in Batman. He is winning now because of their sacred trust to him. Batman killed and defeated the Joker.”

-Self-Help Quote Comic Life

-Raul Conde (Writer)

My Advice Quotes #153

“For you certain nice people, in philosophy terms, don’t ever turn to the dark side in real life, you can end up like Darth Vader, but in a real life negative person real version, but not the fiction character. Save yourself, before it is too late.”

-Raul Conde (Writer)

 

Be Friends With Nice People Instead of Being Enemies

No one likes a fight and a war. No one wants to start a fight over something silly, or that is already settled. Some people take their personal lives way too serious. I think it is time to go to a Psychiatrist for therapies. You will start to feel better. Some have anger management problems and they want to be that same stubborn self. I think we need to do away from anger, because it creates much violence and crimes all over the world. Read a psychology book, or start reading some Psychology Today magazines. I bet that you will be feeling fine. Think for 10 minutes of what you are doing, or talk to someone before it gets way out of hand on you. The smartest choice is friendliness. Don’t confront whiners. Don’t confront people who hate innocent things. Just ignore them. Be yourself and start to act normal. Occupy yourself by reading books and listening to music. Take time off to let out your steam from your mind. Be happy and nice.

A Moment of Thanking Nice People

If someone has helped you in any way of your life. You should thank them. You will feel once better when you do. If you don’t you will feel worthless and guilty that you didn’t. There are people who want to help nice people like you. I don’t think not thanking them for their efforts of saving your life will leave you all positive. Sure, it will leave you positive, but there will be some of that guilt wishing you would have done so. Mixed feelings are more the point you will feel. Give a moment of thanks to nice people who have given a chance on your life. Think about it. I know that you won’t be a loser by not doing it, but remember that blame will get ugly on you someday. Thank them. It’s the correct choice. Your life will be viewed positive, if you do!

Be Happy That You Have Your Family

Most of us should be happy that we have our families, and even our friends. But, family comes first. Family is the most important. They are there for you and they care about you. You should be happy that you have your family, even if you have a few friends. Don’t demoralize yourself about not having many friends, because I think you will get it later in your life. Life is suppose to be enjoyed. We are all to err in our lives, and we’re all human. Even I am human. I have learned to give back to families and friends. The one thing that I am proud of is that I took out the mean person in me. I started to bring the nice person of who I am in real life. I think this approach most of you should do. In fact I want most of you to forget about the dark pasts and forgive others who want to change for good. This is an excellent assignment for most of you. Be happy for what you got, because not all people have it. All I am asking is change for the positive life. People will come back to you friendly and want to be your friends. Your family will want you back in their lives. There is nothing to lose in the present, because the past is over. Listen to yourself and not the jerks who push you around. You’ll be surprised of how some other people were lost in their lives trying to be the nice person and defining suddenly what is good. We should throw out the bad and the mean side. We should be nice people. It is easy to do, and it isn’t so hard to do. I have done it, and you should too. Just forget about the past and stick to the present.