Some people live by blaming others and themselves for their mistakes. I think this is the reason why they live in the past. They are so hooked on negative pasts events that they can’t get out of. I think this is the wrong way of living a life. Life is to think for yourself without guilts of anything and think that you are always a good person. Live in the present and stop blaming others and yourself of your bad pasts. If you do this, then you really are living in the past. Save yourself. Think of yourself as a good person and always was and are. Live for today. Stop procrastinating. Live in the present. You will have a happy life if you do. The pasts are gone and to relive it is a sin on you. Be happy and treat yourself with respect. Your happiness is all that counts. Love yourself!