One way to make yourself happy is don’t be so caught up in thinking that your team is going to win or lose. You can watch sports games of teams winning and losing, because sports is so unpredictable. Another thing you can do is listen to music, and watch movies that just came out. You can enjoy things without a fuss. If you didn’t see the movie the first day it came out. You can see it the next week, or some other day. Find your true happiness, which lies within you. Find something to do like reading fantasy novels, or you can find a job fixing cars. Whatever is that makes you happy is great. Most people aren’t happy with themselves, and it is mostly because of relationships. I think if a girl didn’t want to go out with you, find another one that will say yes to you. All I am saying we’re all in the same boat you are. True happiness is when you found peace within yourself. Make a change in yourself, and find something to do, rather than sitting around doing nothing. I know some people are unfair with you, and us all, but at least don’t let it affect you. And if it does it’s not your fault. They are the ones who will lose at the end. however, things change, and turn out the way you want them to. But, it doesn’t happen to most people, which it should. Stay happy, and true to yourself, whatever the results may be good or bad. Being happy is what is most important. Did you know when some people do the wrong things they blame themselves later on, and some of them change for good? It’s true. So, hang on in there. Things will turn out brighter.
Self-Help
Do Good Deeds To Good People, Not Bad Ones
We are all caught in ourselves by being greedy on everything, and not helping others. If there are people helping you out, help them back. Show showmanship, and be a good role model. Nobody likes a person who doesn’t give back to good people. Most people love to do good deeds to nice decent people. Many people care for innocent people who are in tough situations. A friend helping out a friend is always best. You’ll feel much better when you give favors to good people, as when they are passed on to you. I am not saying to give up, and fail. But, everybody has a competitive side in them, as you do. If you see someone who is nice, and doesn’t have any friends, be his or her friend. It doesn’t hurt, and you’re not obligated to anything. You still can be competitive. Your friends do you favors, and you do them favors back helps your ego. Do the good deeds, and help out, as the good deeds will pass on to you, but don’t do any favors to the people who don’t deserve it. Help out your friends, and families.
Money Changes Some People For The Worse
For some people: money, and the weak mind are their worst enemies to ruin their lives. I am advising you to use the money for the good, not for the worse. The worst case scenario is that money changes some of us as bad, if we have weak minds. If we see it in millions, or billions, then some will use it for the worse. Like most people say money talks, but you have to do it the right healthy way of lifestyle. The money changes some individuals who start out as nice artists, then they turn into the worst persons. The problem is that they don’t see it coming when they receive it. They do realize it when they receive huge amounts of money, then they get bad ideas to do in public with it. The reason is some people get into trouble, or make bizarre lifestyles for themselves, because of it. Don’t be some of those people who think it’s cool to rob someone, or trick innocent people. These people who have money in millions or billions, have to think it over about their lives. Do the right thing, not the wrong. It’s their lives they’re messing with, not ours. If they don’t change, then it’s too late to recover their lives, because soon all it’s lost. The worst case scenario is if you don’t change it for health reasons, then it’s too late. Whatever anyone tells you to do about the money for worst case scenarios don’t change into the person that your friends and families don’t want you to. If you do, then you blame others for it, and it’s your loss. For some: money and the weak mind; It can really make you jump into conclusions about the people who care for you the most. Have a talk with your parents first.
Take Life Easy, If It’s Hard On You
Life was and is hard for all of us. I think through these times we need to see the other bright side towards it. Not everything is going to stay the same. I know now some of you don’t have a social life yet, and it is real hard on some of you. The only thing to do is just enjoy life for what it is. Let me say this: It gets better the upcoming days, years, months, and weeks. One problem we used to do is act like jerks, which we’re not in real life. This is the only reason we don’t have social lives. But, thinking about the positives helps much. You have a new set of life to depend on. Trust on yourself that you will get things done on having a career, and friends. We all have it rough, but we can enjoy life with families. Try to enjoy life, and your friends will come back to you. There is hope on the horizon of all walks of life. Hope and pray to God that life will be brighter once again. Be yourself.
Losing My Lost Feelings Forever
Alright, now I know what being lost is, and it wasn’t easy to overcome it. It took me years of realizing what I needed to change in order to make people likes me for who I am. One thing I have learned is not to hate the wrong people, and not get angry with anybody. The second is that never go against my friends, and families who care about me. The third one is that never turn away from the people that love me. The last one is never disrespect anything or anyone, and don’t make fun of people again. These were the things I had to figure out in order to realize that I was never a jerk. I was just lost. Now I know what good is, and means. In the past several years I have had to change my habits, and attitudes towards being friendly to people. The negativity I have had to take out, and the arguing with people for no reason too. A person who is lost is someone who goes against the people they care about him/her the most. It could last for like 15 or 17 years, maybe less for anyone who is lost. These years have been completely different, even though I have gotten angry with my favorite teams losing games I didn’t let it out in public. The past current years I have gotten angry for some days, but during those times I have had to change my feelings of being positive, accepting realities, and realize that there are people who want to help me. It wasn’t real easy for me, because I have had to fight my own demons, but have come now as the friendliest person you can hang around with. The only thing I am trying to do is now not complain about the losing games, and not worry about things like magazines or any stuff not coming in the mail for me. Through this time my attitude is now of a friendly, and caring person who cares about families, friends, and good people.
No One Is Bothering You
If you think that some people are treating you bad, then you’re wrong. People just want to be happy. Take celebrities for example some may live bizarre lives, but they aren’t bothering anyone. One advice I would recommend you is to enjoy celebrities’ entertainment like for example loving their music, and leave their personal lives alone. No one is bothering you. Average people mind their own business of doing what they have to do, and they enjoy entertainment. Don’t jump to conclusions on anything. I listen to hip-hop, rap, R&B, and pop, and I don’t make a big deal about it. I think the smart thing to do is to just go on with your business. Sports is the same thing to just enjoy it, and not take it personal. If you go for a favorite them, then good, but just enjoy watching them play. If they win good for you, or if they lose, then it’s nothing personal. Not everyone is the same, and you have to let people have their fun; however they want to do it, even if it is strange. Whomever they may be, and good or bad. Those people are having fun with their lives. One example is that I enjoy watching Miami teams play in sports in the state of Florida, and I don’t take it personal. I am a huge Miami Hurricanes fan, as well as a huge Florida Gators fan, and it’s nothing personal. People have their own lives to live just as we do. When you go out don’t start jumping to conclusions that everyone, or one person is bothering you. Instead, enjoy life by going out with friends, or families. People have the same feelings just as you and I do. Period. Have fun the safe way, not the dangerous way. Concentrate on doing your job of what you need to do. Don’t get into any trouble with anyone of any type, or you’ll pay for it.
Staying Positive All The Time
I know it is hard for some of you staying happy and positive. You feel like the world has crumbled down, and you can’t overcome your pasts’ problems. In order to be happy forget about the bad pasts, and remember the good ones. The negativity does affect you if you let it. God has always said that everyone is equal. We should love ourselves for who we are. If you feel down in the dumps, and is trying to pick up the pieces try reading a self-help book or buy one. The one that has always helped me the most is “The Secret”, but you need to do what it says. Any kind of self-help book can be useful overcoming from depression. It’s always important to stay positive all the time. We aren’t getting any younger. Maybe Dr. Wayne W. Dyer’s books will uplift your spirits. Lift up your spirit, if you don’t, then you’ll always be remembered as the person who was never happy. Remember being happy is the best medicine. Stay true to yourself, and treat yourself better. Love. Peace. Freedom. 🙂
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