I think we should let the bad pasts be bygones. I advise you to do so. You can’t go on going hurting people not giving them anything. Give your friends love and compassion. I think that there are such things as hurt souls. We need to make amends to them. Give back, and they will give back to you. when your friend is in trouble help them out. Always tell them that God and Jesus Christ is always with them. Think for a minute who is the guilty party, and don’t make a huge mistake by it. Let your friends tell them who they now have an open heart. It’s important to hear their story of how they have changed. You’ll be surprised that they’re problems are very little to yours. If one of your friend regrets a problem they committed be there for them. We can’t go on hurting more people that some are hurting others and themselves, because of it. Give your friends second chances, and they’ll completely forget about their pasts and they’ll enjoy the present. It’s not easy in this world for everyone, and it is very difficult for everyone. Take my advices.