Happy thoughts usually occur when you feel and think happy. You don’t get those destructive thoughts that some people do. Start building your mind with self-esteem by creating positive words. Words in your mind does mean a great deal. Having those peaceful moments when you hang out with friends by trying to say the right words is important. Think of something that isn’t of any harm, and trust those happy thoughts that bring you comfort. It shows sometimes when you think of violent thoughts, and it isn’t safe to think this way. The reason I am saying is that you don’t want to drive a vehicle with negative or malicious thoughts blooming all across your forehead. I know that driving in some places is a hassle, but try to calm your thoughts. In this way you don’t fight with other drivers when it is your, or their faults at any wrong simple thing you misleadingly think  has happened. It is better not to fight. Think of words of comfort. Don’t use hopeless words by quitting on yourself. Stop using defeating words and think happy thoughts. Once you think of happy thoughts you will get along with friends, and families. Sadness won’t turn your life around, but being happy will. I know these things take time, but it works.